No I am not pregnant. lol. But, my boyfriend asked me to have it with him and i told him i would think about it. should i try it with him, but using a condom or should i say no? this is a first...but i need ur help. What should I do? He knows me for 3 years now, and we have been going out for 2.5 years.
2007-02-09 16:10:01 · 15 answers · asked by carol s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
-18 years old
-3 years of relationship
-have sex but use condom
-he aint gunna go out with you 4 3 years just to use u for sex
-its a real relationship
2007-02-09 16:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey you've got to do what feels right and if you feel you're ready then go for it. Use a condom though so you don't get pregnant. I got pregnant at 18 and I'm 20 now and i love my daughter to death, but I wasn't ready. You're minds not ready yet. If you do decide to do it be protected ok?? No one can tell you to do it or not it's all on you. Just think about.
2007-02-09 16:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by dymondgrl24 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He osunds like a good giuy. Obviously he isn't with you for the sex and really loves you :). I say if you are comfortable (and really, it is only a decision you can make), go to the doctors and get some birth control pills, and then use a condom. Two methods with 98% accuracy are a lot better than one!
Good luck!
2007-02-10 02:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by bpbjess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you guys are ready for a baby theres a lot of work and not to mention there expensive your still young but that's up to you guys get married first make sure this is the guy you want but its up to you good luck on your decision.
2007-02-09 16:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by vixen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you think you're ready and think the relationship will last even if you do have sex then do it, but if you think it'll crumble then don't...and if you're comfortable with the possibility you can get pregnant or an STD then do what your heart feels. Follow your heart and what you want to do nd don't let him pressure you or force you.
2007-02-10 02:21:55 · answer #5 · answered by ML 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, If u dont want to, then dont. I woundlt make a descison that I could end up regretting 4 a while. But I cant really say, can? Is it up to me, no.
2007-02-09 16:15:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you know you are 100% ready and don't have to ask strangers what they think you should do.
2007-02-09 17:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by learning_to_live_616 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to have, fine then go ahead but be careful while doing that.
be protected
be on the safe side always
all the best.
2007-02-12 05:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by sanjeev k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur ready do it with condoms
2007-02-10 02:15:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel its right for you to go through with it (havin a baby) then do it. if you love him do it. just go with what your heart is telling you
2007-02-09 16:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by *babygirl* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋