i'm i being too nice
2007-02-09 16:01:32 · 12 answers · asked by DEEDOG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're too nice... and the only solution is reject them learn to say no or else you'll just be another push dummy for them.
Honestly... I was also in you're situation. The only thing I did was to reject their cravings and you know what from that point knew that they are not really my friends they just wanted what I have...
This is actually the moment of truth for you it's either you say "No" or be the fool...
2007-02-09 16:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jean Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be less available. A little standoffishness in a friendship can be a good thing. You might also try to find some new friends if this current set is not working out - sometimes friendships get into habits that are hard to change, and it might be hard for you to set boundaries with your current group because they've taken advantage of you so much in the past. It might be time for a new beginning.
2007-02-09 16:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by Cris O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are being nice to them to get something or expecting something in return.Let us first evaluate ourselves if we also possess the same element as our friends have otherwise we should correct them.Let me tell you something about a philosophy that "Good persons invites good persons and likewise bad persons invites bad company.Why would you tolerate them taking advantage of you in the first place?A good friend teaches a friend astray the right thing to make your friendship last with sincerity and loyalty.If they don`t listen, there is something wrong with you as well.
2007-02-09 17:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by lizashibuya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O PLEASE! the 1st thing u need 2 do is stop calling them ur freinds ! u need 2 go and find some real ones ...now just becuz u shouldnt be there freinds doesnt mean u shouldnt be kind to them it just means yall cant be cool like yall used 2 be. if ur so called freinds come back 2 u then u forgive them and start over and if they dont then move on. there are so many good ppl in the world ur bound 2 find atleast 1
i hope u do the right thing.
2007-02-09 16:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by jazzyj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...If your nice be nice! But if they take advantage of you tell them to stop and if they dont, then dont hang out with them. Same thing happend to me. But in a week i twice as many friends.
2007-02-09 16:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by ryan r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not your friends. Friends don't do this. Maybe you are trying too hard to be liked??? Just be yourself, good friends will stick and the others ... well you know the rest of the story. When you respect yourself others respect you. Set your boundries and stop trying to win friends.
2007-02-09 16:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are really your friends, you can tell them how you feel. If they ask you a favor next time. learn to say no. If they are your true friends they will understand and not take advantage of you.
2007-02-09 16:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by bittersweetlove21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean by taking advatage? is it boy? dont let boys get in between you and your friends they can really hurt you and hurt you in our long run..good luck be your nice, normal self...
2007-02-09 16:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by tErI :-) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should drop them cuz they are not your true friends. thats not what they are there for. don't ever let anybody take advantage of you. nobody deserves that.
2007-02-09 16:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by Nee-Nee J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either tell them that and learn to stand up for yourself or find better friends.
2007-02-09 16:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋