once in awhile I get really sad and miss my high school boyfriend. We went out all thru high school and for some stupid reason we broke up (we don't even remember) and he went off to Iraq and we didn't talk for like a year or two and we have been for about a year now and I really miss him and wonder what it would be like if we never broke up. I'm just scared I'm gonna wanna get back together with him. I love my husband and my daugher very much, but I dont love my husband the way I love my ex. Does this make a bad person?
2007-02-09 15:48:36 · 12 answers · asked by jojo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well if yall are meant to be then yall will be together.
2007-02-09 16:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by CurlySue 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's probably an illusion. I realized a few years back that when I thought of people and places I missed what I was really missing was the time. You can find the ex and you can return to the location where you were together, but you would quickly find that it is the time in your life that you miss and that will never come back. Try to see that time as an important part of your journey and accept that where you are now is exactly where you are meant to be. You are probably feeling a little trapped by your domestic life, don't be afraid to find someone to talk to, a professional can reassure you that what you are feeling is perfectly normal and go a long way to relieving your guilt. It is normal and doesn't mean that you don't love your husband or your family.
2016-05-24 20:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is missing in your marriage? Did you marry your husband because of love or security reasons? You need to ask oyurself these questions and really answer them truthfully. I think yu may be missing something in your marriage that your husband is not giving you. or you are the problem. You need to take a momment and look at you and the relationship you have with your husband. Good Luck
2007-02-09 15:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry girly I've had similar thoughts about my ex and how much we once loved each other at one point in our lifes. I've been now with my current BF for over a year and a half but I cant forget the past.
But dont forget to only fantasize and not act on it. Let the past be the past:)
2007-02-09 16:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by Diana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it makes you a bad person... it just makes you human. I don't want to give you any advice because ultimately it's your decision and you shouldn't base whether you will stay with your husband or go to your ex from what people on yahoo answers say. I wish you luck though and I hope everything works out for the best :)
2007-02-09 15:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It took me a long time to understand that you can love 2 people, in very different ways.
2007-02-09 15:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by hazzy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does make you a bad person. You made a committment to the man you married. If you weren't serious about it, then you should not have married him. Get over it. It was highschool, it's over, welcome to the real world. That boy doesn't care about you or you would be with him not married to some other guy.
2007-02-09 15:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Now your already married and have a baby... Its time to forget your EX... Dont waste your time for him, you have your family now be practical married is important...
2007-02-09 16:04:13 · answer #8 · answered by edsky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. everyone wonders. this is how life is. it doesn't make you love your husband less. it makes you human. no one will ever take his place and i think that is what you are feeling. no one knew me as well as my high school ex did, and i still love him. it's the way life is. you will get over it eventually. really.
2007-02-09 15:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I hope your feeling does not ruin for married life. Good luck!
2007-02-09 16:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by MIB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is
yes it does!
Stay away from old boyfriends your starting a new life and are raising a new life and taking a risk at ruining a child's life.
How do i know this? If it wasn't true, YOU WOULDN'T BE THINKING ABOUT FOLLOWING THROUGH WITH IT.
Pretty smart ain't I?
2007-02-09 15:53:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋