this girl is threating to fight me on monday and i want to use self defence give me some tips please on how to get her good.
2007-02-09 15:43:23 · 27 answers · asked by cateyez_1970 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think that you should avoid her...and be the bigger person....let a school official know...and if that doesn't work...let me take you to the street right quick....
It is all talk....I went through the same thing in school...and if I knew then what I know now....I would have kicked the first heifer's behind...and saved myself a lot of problems....
Now, if she really wants to challenge you...then fight her...and go for what you know...
Most of the big mouths that walk around threatening people are all talk...they just look bad and scary...
If you see her to be a long term threat...then...
grab her hair and dig in to it with one hand....and take your other hand and punch her in her face until someone makes you stop...
Use your body weight to your advantage...and try to duck or avoid her first throw...it will sike her out....
Once you start to fight, you will know that you need to walk away as a winner....and it will work out just fine!!!!Trust me....
But, don't let her think you are scared...and take the high road if you can....fighting is a ghetto mess...but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do....
2007-02-09 15:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by LIFECOACH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try not getting into a fight for no good reason. Unless a person is an imminent threat to either yourself or others, fighting them is pointless. If you must fight, here's an idea: learn how. If you actually have some trining, you can beat any street-punk with practiced ease. Since you obviously don't know how to fight, take her down and fight on the ground. 90% of fights end there anyway, and when two untrained people go at it, the one on top will usually win. So beat her to it. EDIT: To guard, wrap your legs around her and keep her close to your body if she gets on top of you. This is actually called the guard position, and from here she can't punch you. Try to flip her over so that you end up on top of her if you're forced to use this position. Otherwise, just block any damn punches she throws.
2016-05-24 20:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people only talk the talk, and never walk the walk.
But to be safe --
Don't throw the first hit. If this girl is all about talk, then
wait til she does something. If she doesn't do anything,
then hey, she'll be the one who looks like a fool!
Bring a couple of your friends that you trust that will
have your back if one of the girl's friends decides to jump in.
If the fight breaks out, grab the **** out of her hair, and make
sure her face is pointed down to the ground. While grabbing
her hair, spin her around in circles, and upper cut her in the face
using your other hand. Be careful to not get too close to her,
otherwise she can grab you, and you'll be the one on the ground. Aim for her nose, cause once you hit her nose, it'll be an immeidate response to cover your face. Once she does that, she should give in and fall to the floor. When she's down on the floor, kick her face good :] Never attempt to kick her in the stomach, because that'll be an advantage for her to grab your leg
and push you to the ground.
If anything- fighting should be your LAST resort! Good luck :D
2007-02-09 17:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by inevitable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got in a school fight once.Heres how it went,these two sophomore girls (my bestfriend and I were freshmen then) had said some racist comments toward my friend and me.btw i'm native and asian and spanish and my friend is black.It only started because one of the girls bumped into my friend in a crowded hallway.She told my friend to say sorry even though it was her fault and my friend said "no".So then out of nowhere her and her friend unload a barrage of insults and start to take hits at me and my friend.By now the whole crowd in the hallway is watching the spectacle and cheering on the fight on both sides. My friend dodges the swings and slaps the girl is making at her and finally just lays into the girls face and gives her two black eyes a busted nose and two swollen bloodied lips to go with it.Meanwhile the second girl has got me in a headlock and is repeatedly hitting me anywhere she can hit(I was never really one for fighting) anyways I can't think of anything to do so I jab my finger in the direction of her head and and hit my target,her eye.She releases me and takes a step back so I take my chance on her and do the only thing I can think of,I tackle her around the mid section near her waist and we both go slamming into the ground.Once i've got her pinned down with my legs I start punching her face and stomach,chest anything I can hit until someone pulls me off her.
Afterward we all got in trouble,but the other two girls got a far worse punishment.My friend and I got only a weeks worth of detention and the other two girls got suspension. A lot of witnesses recount how they started the fight and used racist remarks against us saying how we only fought them in self defense.
I still regret it to this day because my friend and I had the option to walk away and report them but sometimes the only thing you can do is fight and defend yourself.
My advice is fighting is the last resort and all conflicts can be avoided or resolved some other way,if you feel this bully can truly cause harm to you then tell a teacher or the principal about the threats she is making toward you.
If you do plan on fighting her then don't slap because that only causes a temporary sting,scratching doesn't do much,pulling hair only gives the person a funny bald spot and punching with the corner of your fist(the area around your pinkie and ring finger knuckle) can cause damage to you by breaking your fist if the impact is great enough.Dodge her hits and keep a good enough distance from her unless you want to get head locked possibly,
when punching properly aim for her gut and face if you want to get bloody,tackle if you can but only if you know you can take the person on and try to pin the person whether it be on the ground,wall,corner whatever,but remember not to get cornered yourself.
If you can get some good friends for back up because you never know if she'll bring any to help her out.That would suck to be out numbered by 5 to 1.
Good luck and remember fighting is a last resort,only do it if you know what your getting your self into.
2007-02-09 17:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by 17-4serendipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight like they do in hockey. When the slaps and haymaker fists start flying, grab her by the hair, pull her down then grab the back of her shirt with your other hand and pull it over her head. Let go of her hair and start sucker punching her with your now free hand while holding her shirt over her head. She can try and pull out and be emberrassed cuz you still have her shirt, or she can stay there and take it. Watch out though - she'll try and tackle you. Just side step and back off like she's a raging bull.
Note: this works best if shes around the same height as you or shorter. If she's a lot taller you might have a hard time.
Good luck, hope you kick her ***.
2007-02-09 15:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Rez 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Simply walk away until you can't any more
The first thing they'll teach you in any fighting class is to avoid it first.
If not, simply step back from her.
Chances are she's raring to go and will be clumsy. Wait for her to mess up before you hit back.
Aim for the nose with the heal of your hand and aim upward.
As soon as you get in a hit, don't stop until someone pulls you off her.
The only rule in fighting is to win.
2007-02-09 15:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. If you can't talk your way out of it, Act like she was a guy, a kick between the legs will drop a girl as quick as a guy. I would add my personal thoughts but I don't want people to think the wrong thing. P.S. if you really don't want to fight simply leave, If you want to know my opinion e-mail me. Good luck
2007-02-09 16:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by ogrething2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH I had a fight before with this girl who hit me on the head so many times. I really wanted to get her bad so I pushed on the floor first and did whatever. do that. well if u want. It works if u push her down first. she'll probably get imberest I spelled that wrong oh well. yeah.
2007-02-09 15:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by Katrina M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok this may sound retarded but u shouldnt fight the girl fighting never resloves nothing......just tell a teacher or a counsleor or principle that a girl is threatining u....cause if u fight at school it may end up with a ticket or in school sespension and it even goes on ur record too...well i hope u dont fight that girl ....and i hope this helps
2007-02-09 17:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by spongebob fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually it's all talk until it comes down to it. She's just trying to look big and bad and once you defend yourself she will probably back down but if it does, grab her hair on the top of her head with one hand and with the other give her a big upper cut right in her nose! You have to stand up for yourself.
2007-02-09 15:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by Nette 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋