ok so this really hott guy likes me and i like him back and i was to shy to react to his obcessive flirting, and he probably took that as a rejection, is that why he probably might have a gf now? because he used to flirt with me everyday! like even stalk me, and he still does it but it seems like he is sad cuz he thinks i rejected him, uggh why are men so complicated??? has he moved on alittle bit but not all the way, because of what i accidentaly did to him? please dont be mean i need some good advice
2007-02-09 15:36:58 · 9 answers · asked by californiadudette1991 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
If this guy is STILL stalking you--which no one seemed to pay attention to--he is NOT normal.
Stay away from him !!!
Sure what they have said may be true; but, again, if he is still stalking you--that spells more trouble than you could imagine!!
Try finding out from dating books, or online at PerfectMatch.com, how to flirt. Flirting never hurts.
Just be sure that if he is TOO possesive, or unusally Jealous--that spells trouble, psycho, or danger of some kind.
2007-02-09 15:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by DC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really liked him you should not have blown him off. He got a girl because he wanted you but he thought you didn't like him so he moved on or he is trying to make you jealous. I know this sounds stupid, but talk to him. Ask him if he had a thing for you before he got a girl friend. Or you should wait to see if they end soon and start flirting with him again, but not too much then he wont take it the right way... and they say we are complicated.
2007-02-09 23:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell the guy how you feel. Walk up and say "I like you."
It is the freaky head games that screw up any chance of a real thing.
Look at this:
I liked this girl alot! but I wasn't sure if she liked me, yeah she use to flirt and tease me but I am not sure, she has a boyfriend now, actually she has three boyfriends now, but I am going to act like I like her and maybe try to get her to start flirty with me and leave that other guy.
See? it doesn't make sense. Now just go up to him next time you see him and tell him that you love him or don't.
An embarrassing or awkward moment will slip into obscurity, but a regret is burned into the soul as long as one allows it to remain.
2007-02-09 23:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on girlie, you don't have to do anything. Just wait and watch. I some how agree with 'DC'.
Take your time and observe for a while before you go and talk to him.
by the way.. how old are you?
2007-02-10 00:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by applepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a man to me! What usually happens when guys like you, and you kinda shove them off or whatever. They get a girlfriend really quick, most likely to make you jealous and show you what your missing. I doubt he even really likes this girl. All you would most likely have to do is tell him straight up how it is and how you feel, if you really like him! Don't be shy!
2007-02-09 23:45:33 · answer #5 · answered by girlofyourdreams_6905 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not being mean: men are not complicated.
he likes you, he let you know as much. how is he making this complicated?
tell him the truth. that you were shy. or better, that he was too masculine and you were too overcome...blah blah. play it up and stroke his ego. men are simple.
2007-02-09 23:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by pezzilla101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try your best too be nice to him, I know how hard it is to not be shy in front of him because you like him so much but just think of it this way, if you dont act yourself and talk to him then he`ll think you dont like him and move on. good luck
2007-02-09 23:42:22 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbellgrl114 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find out if he does have a girlfriend from one of his friends, if he does then wait a while and move on until he moves on. if not, take a chance!
2007-02-09 23:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by monkeyfarts6 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, just take him to coffee and sit down away from work. get to know him as he you.. go for it.
2007-02-09 23:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by Befree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋