what do you do with a teacher that hates you?

Question

i have this teacher that absoutly hates me so now iget in to trouble for no reason and he assumes that i talk to someone and then i get into trouble. i have tried telling him that im not talking but then he yells at me. so now i cant talk in the class and he wants me to participate in class but if i can't talk then how can i participate.

i am not a perfect angel at home and i am not the the devil either. My teacher just doesn't understand what is going on in my life so i don't think that he should be yelling at me for no good reason even if he thinks that im the one talking. I think it is unfair when he looks staight at me and sees that i am not talking and then he yells at me for talking. tell me what you think people.

520 i do think i am the victim sorry.
hottie

Answer 1

I'm saying this from previous experiences. Think before you backtalk again. Yea, they deserve it, but if you don't have an attitude then they can't say anything about it. Turn your things in on time and compliment him on his shirt or something like that. It worked like a CHARM for me.

Answer 2

I agree very much with the lady with her online name "520". Maybe you are not playing the victim but a lot of kids are just in total misunderstanding these days. We were up to number 5, and this this boy demanded that I should immediately teach him individually what was on from number 1 to number 4. I said that I can do that but now we continue as the others are waiting... well not the rest of the class but at least some were following. He just can not understand that what he is doing is taking up the whole class time. He kept interrupting and finally I had to go by his way. There was nothing else that could be done. I dont like his attitude but I dont hate them for they simply do not get that it's rude and not good at all what he was doing. A girl who was in my class, would be so nice to carry my bag to class and put it next to my desk, only she couldnt either be my favourite student for she chats in class and if the work is just a bit challenging, she wouldnt try anything. If it is too easy for her, she would say, I know how to do this already and doesnt want to do it. So why dont you try to put your shoes in your teacher's place. Maybe you dont care, but why at all do you go to class in the first place if it werent for learning. Personally give students a break if they have done some learning in the class. In my time, we would just learn and learn and learn until the time for that period is up. Nowadays, kids tend to think, they not too dumb, theyll manage through life and they neither have to be too rich, dont need to be an astrounaut or Bill Gates, or a Prime Minister, so life shall go on and if they can dine in expensive restos, it's OK, the burgers will still keep them alive. If the burgers are not there, simple cereal or rice won't make them bleed. Try to stay focused and make a goal for you each day. BUT IF YOU REALLY THINK THAT THAT TEACHER IS PICKING ON YOU OR YOU NEED A MEDIATOR TO GET ALOGN WITH HIM, THEN ASKED THE SCHOOL COUNSELLOR, THE ADMINISTRATION PEOPLE, THE VICE PRINCIPAL OR WHO EVER IS USUALLY IN CHARGE OF DAILY STUDENTS MATTERS AT YOUR SCHOOL. Hope this is a bit of a help to you! Good luck in your schooling.

Answer 3

You know Hottie, in life, every action has a reaction. Have you ever just looked at someone and decided that you hated them for no reason?? I doubt it. So, I have a question for you. If you are truly honest with yourself, which I doubt because that would be no fun and you wouldn't be on here looking for sympathy, what did you do to get a teacher to hate you. Teachers generally don't hate students. They may like some less than others, be irritated by them, generally because of their behaviour, but hate? No way! What would your mom and dad say about you if we asked them? Are you an angel at home and a "victim" at school?? hmm?? What would your teacher say about you if we asked him? OK, my suggestion would be to write him a letter and tell him how you feel and explain your position. Sometimes, people do or act in ways that they are not even aware of, so putting your feelings down on paper, may make him look and think about his own behaviour. In any case, it's time to grow up, stop sulking, acting like a child and take some steps in facing and solving your problem yourself. In real life there are no guidance couselors, principals or even parents who will fight your fights for you, only courageous adults, of which I hope you will become one someday. Why not start practicing being one right now?? Good Luck

Answer 4

Your best bet would most likely be to talk to a guidance counselor and ask to change to another teacher; hopefully he is not the only one who teaches the course you are in. If this is not possible, ask for a meeting with him and the principal so you can discuss what you can do to be able to learn history or whatever the course is without his yelling at you. I knew of one student who had a tape recorder in his bookbag, turned it on before entering the room, and took the recording to a meeting with the teacher and the principal. He said the teacher was mad at first when the tape was brought out, and then ashamed that she had reacted like she had. Come to find out, she was under immense stress with her mother dying and her father having Alzheimers and she was taking it out on her students. Teachers shouldn't do that but we're all human and apt to make major errors.

Asking the teacher for a personal meeting and being very kind and asking if there is a reason that you are being treated this way and why you are the only one getting yelled at might bring out what is going on. You could ask if there is some way you could help. Maybe, you remind him of a wife that left him! Who knows?

Bud

Answer 5

For every action, there is always a reaction. Your teacher does not hate you. It's maybe you have done something which irritated him and who knows for how long now since it's almost closing of the school year.

You should do something about it or it'll be too late for you. You should talk WITH him, a heart-to-heart talk would do and it would be better if you can do it during one vacant period, but not in front of your classmates. Clear your conscience, make an apology or rather ask what it was that irritated him. Maybe he's one of those seriously working teacher who wanted to have his students learned more and maybe too, he observes that you're not paying attention to what he's trying to discuss in the class.

Make it a challenge and promise him that you'll do better after your dialogue. Be sincere. He'' ll know if you are not.

Good luck and God bless!!!

Answer 6

Go to a position that's higher than him, and tell them that he is treating you unfairly. Or make a scene in front of the whole class, and speak up. Tell him if he does not treat you the right way, you'll take serious action and he could lose his job. (that scares the hell out of them).

Plus, if you do get into trouble and get sent to the office. At least other teachers know you, and you can explain everything and them, and they can spy on your behaviour, plus they'll tell that teacher to 'control you' and he'll have to do what they say so he doesn't look like he can't do his job.

Answer 7

Like maximum jobs there are issues to love and dislike! I volunteer in the regular public college and am solid associates with 3 of the instructors in the school to boot, so I listen the way it is. there is dissimilar pink tape with practise, that is not any longer almost training little minds, that is comments and administrative and ordering limits. there is coping with college board funds cuts, paintings force cuts, and overfilled type rooms. and evidently there is continually a student or 2 that take advantage ideal instructors pray for June! yet fairly, why willingly do some thing in case you hate it??

Answer 8

Participating in class has nothing to do with disrupting his classroom when he is giving instruction or lecturing, I can't stand it when a child is talking when instructions are given, then when they are finish talking to their friends, they take up class time and my time, to ask what did you just say? ( With Attitude !) But when you tell them they were talking, they 'll say they weren't, but yet, they have no idea what page was just read, or what it was about, I'm sure you're not the little angle you want us to believe you are. Stop playing the victim

Answer 9

Try talking to the teacher befor or after class ask what you can do to improve in the class. Offer to move to the front of class so that he can see you better.

Answer 10

You should talk to your guidance counselor. They'll be able to give you advice on what to say to your teacher, or they'll go right to your teacher and tell him to straighten up. Your teacher shouldn't be acting this way, and if you bring it to the attention to other faculty, something will be done.

(If you don't know who the guidance counselor is, just ask someone in the school's office or the Nurse or a random teacher where the guidance counselor's office is. Then you can just walk right in.)