They are always so stuborn and overprotective that I don't know what to do. And to add to that my mom is moving me to a hole different STATE saying theirs NOT A SINGLE thing HERE for us and my friends WILL ask for her reasoning behind this and will take it as she dose not think that they are not worth much. That there friendship to me is not worth much. My mom is not in good graces with my friends and it will come back to bite me in the ***. I'm losing my mind here. That and I all ready have depresih that almost no one notices. So I really need some help.
2007-02-09 15:21:44 · 6 answers · asked by Dark_light 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Alrighty buddy, first of all even if your mother seems like the wicked witch from the west, I can guarantee that she is looking out for your best interest. I don't know how old you are but as far as the depression goes I think that you need to talk to your mother about it. Let her know how you are feeling about everything and possibly get yourself some counseling. Depression is a major deal, and not something that a young person should try and deal with on their own. Keep your head up, maybe a move would be great for you! Please talk to your mom, or maybe a relative "adult" that you will feel comfortable with. Good Luck and smile, tomorrow will be a better day!!!!!!
2007-02-09 15:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by Just Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, wait until the decision has been made. I am assuming that you are still in high school, and it is always tough to move during those years.
Your mother does not owe your friends an explanation as to her reasons for doing what she thinks is best. Why is she not in their good graces? Her feelings about your friends have absolutely NOTHING to do with her decision as to whether or not y'all will move.
By the way, your spelling and grammar are atrocious!! Maybe your mom feels that your friends are a bad influence, because you obviously are not giving your studies the amount of time which you need to give to them.
2007-02-16 11:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Lady Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom got a hair up her skirt every six months or so and we would move. Sometimes ouot of the blue. I never had a friend longer than 6 months. If I had it would have bee hard to tell them we were moving. As it was I fell in love with one of my friends and stayed behind when my mom moved off. This did not work out as my friend din't feel the same way. But I did meet my husband shortly after and so it's all good.
If i were one of the friends of someone moving on, I would want to know early on but then, I';m the understanding type. Plus if your friends say they understand and then seem like they are pushing you away, be as calm as you can. Thats the way some of my friends and evn me sometimes acted because it was hard to deal with impending seperation. To push away someone who I will lose anyway seems to be the only way to lessen the pain.
2007-02-16 19:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's ridiculous! Your friends should know that if your mom wants to move there's nothing you can do about it.
Tell them now!! Just what you wrote here:
"My mom wants us to move at the end of the school year. She said there's nothing here for us."
Also, if your mom is moving you just because "there's nothing here..." , you still have time to convince her there is. Have your friends come over once in a while. Let her see you have a life there, maybe she will change her mind. She hasn't actually made any specific plans yet. There's still time.
2007-02-09 15:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friends you think they are a bunch of losers. This takes the heat off your mom and makes it a lot easier to seperate yourself from your friends. If that doesn't work then try kicking them all in their nut bags. Or try dry humping their legs. This should get the point across or may even make your relationships closer. Let us know how it turns out!!
2007-02-09 16:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by mktk401 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hhahahah, if that's actual, wow. i presumed this purely occurs in the movies. nicely, does is the girl presently married? because of the fact if she is, i could certainly enable juan understand, yet while she isn't, then it would not extremely count quantity. additionally evaluate, could juan even have confidence you? He could no longer, or bypass into denial, etc, so weigh that besides.
2016-10-01 21:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋