there is this boy who is in a few of my classes. but its mainly my science class that he messes with me the most. he'll kick my legs and push my chair away with his feet. he'll steel my pencil and take the lead. he throws paper balls at me. he cut and tore parts of my science folder off. he always scribbles on my drawings. he cusses me out then tries to cheat off of me. and the worst part is... i dont tell him to stop i dont try to get him to stop, i dont tell the teacher. i dont do anything. we sometimes have decent conversations but usually its just this. all of my friends who have seen me and him together thinks he likes me but idk from the way he treats me. whats going on? why am i letting him do this?
2007-02-09 15:16:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I think he must be a little boy and I do think he likes you
2007-02-09 16:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop. People treat you the way you let them treat you. Stand up and make a scene people will have a lot more respect for you and you will also respect yourself more. It is time to take a stand. You can do it stop being a wimp.!
2007-02-09 23:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got no self respect or your to shy to stand up for yourself. If that was me I'd confront him and tell him off, or tell someone.
He could like you, and that's his way of tell you. But you should end the harrassment, cuz he then may think it's ok to treat you like that if you both somehow like each other.
2007-02-09 23:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might like you. boys have a stupid way of showing that they like someone. but you need to stand up for yourself as he will not respect you if you let him treat you this way. so tell him to leave you alone and then if he does like you he will grow up and actually act like he does if not than you jsut got rid of an annoynig loser.
2007-02-09 23:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand up for yourself and force his cardes. make him either leave you alone or start treating you right if he indeed likes you! if you let him treat you poorly he will treat you poorly! you may be surprised how much better you feel after telling him off!!good luck and NEVER let a boy/man treat you poorly your mama didn't raise a fool did she?
2007-02-09 23:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by wendy h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let people treat you like that, ever. if you let people walk all over you when you're young, then you're more likely to let people walk all over you for the rest of your life without standing up for yourself. don't let people think they can ever get away with treating you like that. you're a human being and deserved to be treated with respect just like everybody else. stand up for yourself and you'll feel better for doing it.
2007-02-10 03:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by trace s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knock him up side the head that will make him stop and if he hits you back i bet a few other guys will jump him 4 hitting a chick
2007-02-12 10:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by rives 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That *IS* the million dollar question. You need to put a stop to this before more of yoru relationships mirror this one. . .
2007-02-10 02:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by misskenjr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur very sensitive. juss dont let him do all these things and warn him not to do that any more.
other wise kick him off, if he wont listen.
2007-02-12 13:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by sanjeev k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are letting him do this to you cause you dont know now to tell him fo f*** off and stick up for yourself.. you need to learn to stick up for yourself and not be such a pushover....
grow some balls and tell him off...
2007-02-10 00:52:33 · answer #10 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋