If you knew your father was an alcoholic with 3 yrs of sobriety behind him, would you drink in his home?

Question

My boyfriend nearly died from alcoholism in 2003. He was in Rush Presbyterian Hospital in Chicago in shock from multi system organ failure over alcoholism. He stopped drinking and did really good for 3 yrs, then his daughter needed somewhere to live, so she moved home. Her husband and she started drinking and she decides she wants to invite friends over for drinks, pool and party.
Needless to say, he started drinking again. The daughter said "well he would have started drinking again anyway". It made me literally physically sick.
He got so drunk one evening, he took the wrong insulin and almost died. I was at home and I feel like something just led me to him. I went to his house, he was drenched in sweat and his accucheck was less than 40. I had to call an ambulance while his skank daughter watched. Is this ok? She threatened to call the police on me. Are your children allowed do whatever they want irregardless of your condition? Where does the buck stop?

Answer 1

Your boyfriend needs to find some strength and courage and kick his daughter out immediately! Until he does that, she's going to continue to subject him to alcohol and drag him down. It sounds like she doesn't care for her dad at all, if she wasn't willing to call an ambulance. It almost sounds like she wouldn't mind if something happened to him! Maybe she's looking for an inheirtance or something?

All you can do is tell your boyfriend your opinion on it. If he's not willing to listen to you, then I guess you'll have to decide whether it's worth continuing the relationship or not.
Good Luck!

Answer 2

My kids go by my rules when they are in my house. I don't care how old they are it is my house my rules period. When I'm at someone else's house I go by their rules. It is called respect, that girl & her husband need to move out now. To hell with the father daughter relationship they need to leave the house.

Answer 3

Are you a realitve?Or are you just a concerned friend?You need to talk to a lawyer to find out the answers to that question.Whatever the answer he is dire straits needs help!