if a married woman is harssing her husband and family for other guy so what action should take aginst her?

Question

a married woman age 24 is harssing her inlaws for some other guy , than what is the proper action which one should take in such a condition. and the affiare is a pre/marrige affiare which her husband find out after one year . if a man is harssing his wife than a lots of rules , regulations and laws rises in faver of that woman and if a woman is harssing her husband and his family . so what is there any rule, regulation, or law which goes in faver of that man if , yes than please let me know , because u can help some one to get out of a hell type of life .......

Answer 1

Yes you are right there are many legal remedies available to a harassed wife at least in India but the husband has only one remedy available to him that is seeking divorce or judicial separation on the ground of mental cruelty from the wife. The best solution which seems possible other then taking divorce or judicial separation from this lady is to get a matrimonial counseling to make her to understand the importance of matrimonial home , her responsibilities , duties , rights , & how should be her attitude towards her husband & his family. Rest if thing cool down with time every thing will become normal for every one otherwise getting divorce from her is the only solution left with the husband.

Answer 2

hi there. i totally understnd the condition, from the husband's n the wife's point of view.ok first of all..mayb thay wife dint wanted to marry tis husband but she did by force(maybe). and she mite b loving tis guy still. there is no point in fighting.cuz if u try to to keep tis wife wz u, she will resist and more n more problems wil arise. n one doesnt need any kind of bad name for the family (which normally families feel). the best way to keep 2 families in peace, and lettin 3 lives lie peacefully is to let it go..u dont want to own tat woman. u haveto win the woman's love and not force her to love. so its better to let her go if tats wut she wants.pleez be patient and tolerant.anger wil only worsen things for evryone.thehusband and wife need to sit and talk peacefully in thier privacy,without the inlaws interfereing.cuz its matter of these 2 people. u know wut i mean.being soft and understanding towards the woman is best way to deal with.take care

Answer 3

this is what kills me.. night after night .. day after day same old same old .. people already know what to do .. divorce get over it and dont make the same stupid mistake again.get out of it life is too short to keep doing this same stuff to each other just dont get divorced and then do it again..

Answer 4

Aint the answer obvious? let your frend divorce her and let her go to her old guy. n let him marry again if he wants to. i know this is a hypothetical question and you aint actually interested in these answers!

Answer 5

She has to be politely & gently counselled. If she believes any religion, she should be shown the text of her holy book and be asked to read that by herself, which specifically unambiguously bars and prohibits her from pre/extra marital relations. She will be bound to abide by those specific teachings/commands of her own religion, repent and refrain; because religion plays a vital role and is the most effective tool to change its believer. She may not be convinced with any other type of sayings, stories, lectures, etc. The legal position in India is as under:

Premarital, extramarital or unwed sexual activities (intercourse / coitus) are not barred / prohibited and are no offence in any Indian law. Wife’s sexual intercourse with other/s is also no offence, hence no prosecution or punishment to her. Even her sex partner also cannot be punished, if was unaware of her wedlock or had sex with consent or connivance of her husband. However the police cannot arrest or prosecute him. After divorce also her husband is bound to maintain or pay till she remarries, even if she is permanently / continuously enjoying sex with all other/s. Pre marital sexual experiences (intercourse / coitus) with other/s cannot be a ground to seek divorce under Hindu/Special Marriage Act. Thus a female’s physical sexual relations with persons/s of her choice (with their consent) is not an offence or prohibited / barred in any Indian law and she is at liberty to enjoy freely and fearlessly. A male’s physical sexual relations with any 16+ female (with her consent) is no offence or barred / prohibited in any Indian Law, unless she is in the wedlock of somebody else and is done knowing her wedlock and without her husband’s consent or connivance. Courts are bound to believe that all children born during the wedlock (or within 280 days of court’s divorce judgement/decree) are her husband’s legitimate ones. He is bound to maintain or pay them expenses, till sons are 18+ and daughters are married. Prostitution (commercial sex trade, offering sex for monetary gain) alone is an offence punishable in Indian laws.

However all unwed, premarital, extramarital physical sexual relations are not good, resulting in dissatisfied marital lives, AIDS / STD, and births of bastards/ illegitimates, who mostly think/plan/act perversely & contrary to nature, causing all mischief/disorder/disturbance in the world. Such sexual relations put spouses in search for more betters, and destroy joyful marital lives usually resulting in divorces. High % of divorces and children of broken families are threat to the peaceful world.

There is absolutely no concept of divorce in Hinduism, since their marriages are performed in the heaven (not upon this dirty earth) & between their souls (not between living male and female) in presence of the 330 million Gods and Goddesses (not before human beings). Indian Parliamentarians of different religions/ castes legislated/ enacted Hindu Marriage Act in 1955 (applicable to Hindus in India only) making scope for divorce for Hindus. Hindus’ marriages are totally unbreakable and are everlasting even in their future births & briths also, though the Govt. laws may go on granting divorce decrees.

All unwed sexual activities (pre/post/extra marital), homosexual acts, & other perverted sexual acts are specifically forbidden in Islam. In Islam, it is great sin and heinous crime against government/society punishable with publicly lashing/ death by pelting stones.

Answer 6

you should consult a lawer.

Answer 7

What?!