I have a baby and I am just 13 and I don't Know how to tell my mom I can't even have a boy friend what should I do and how should I tell her.
2007-02-09 14:53:08 · 16 answers · asked by chris brown biggst and #1 fan 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
um, a baby what? Baby squirrel?
2007-02-09 15:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by calliope_13731 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a tough one honey, now do you mean you already have a baby or that you are pregnant? if your pregnant you have to tell your mama, you must be honest. If you thought you were inlove or whatever, you have to tell her...your very young and you are going to need all the help you can get! besides, mama is going to find out anyways....sometime or another right...or tell your dad if he is easier going, or your best friends mother or other trustworthy adult , and let him break it to your mom. also, try going to planned parenthood i heard that was a groovy site...ive never been on it though. Just remember, you now have a great responsability and you are going to have to do your very best raising your baby! you can do it! youre not the first girl your age to have a baby, im not saying its a good thing, im just saying, hang in there! be brave! everything has a purpose and everything happens for a reason!
2007-02-09 23:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes in life you hit a dead end and need to face your situation. if you have a kid, you have a kid. If I were you, here's what I would do:
1) Realize that that is your kid, not your mom's. So you're gonna have to play a big role in raising it, unless mom or grandma decides to help you so that you can stay in school.
2) If you have to raise the kid, do so but also do not forget that you must make a living and raise the kid. So, keep education in mind and try to find ways to continue with your education. And don't do it half-assed. Work really hard - for you and the kid.
3) Close your fuc*ing legs. Don;t go looking for more coc" and getting preg again. I would really kick you in the as* really hard if you freaking got preg again. That's like the most stupidest thing that you can do. Close your freaking legs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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4) Realize that you may need to grow up a bit faster than your peers but do what you need to do. You cannot always be at the mall like your feidnds since you have other responsibilities. Your mom may not be happy but just tell her. It will hurt at first but you'll all be ok in a few days.
2007-02-09 23:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by JiveSly 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The best way to approach you mom is respectfully and be kind to her bring up the birds and the bees to her and if she has already talked to you about it tell her that you understand what she was saying to you. Take her out for a coffee and a donut just one on one time with her and let her know your situation. She loves you very much and she is only looking out for you and wants what is best for you and your baby don't be afraid to tell her because she will be more happy that you confided in her and you turned to her for help with this situation. good luck.
2007-02-09 23:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by LEE ANN P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is something seriously wrong in your household if you have a baby and your Mom doesn't know about it... and you're sitting at the computer asking strangers what to do!!!
The baby should be crying.... your Mom is going to know!! You need to show her and get the baby some medical attention!!
2007-02-09 22:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell you mom and dad since they will notice the change in your physical appearance sooner or later.
You mom will tell you where to go from there.
As an aside, try to forget that boys exist, go back to school, get an education, develop your natural talents. Life goes on.
2007-02-09 23:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by daryavaush 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your mom because your too young to care for this child. Tell an adult & they will help you. Remember, your baby's needs come first. Don't be scared. You are a mother now & you need to have a voice. Be strong!
2007-02-09 23:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by Elissa M 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
are you pregnant or did you already have the baby? Where are you that your not with your MOM? I would suggest going to your school counselor and telling her and let her call your Mom in and help mediate between the two of you face to face.
2007-02-09 22:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by tsd574 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have a baby or you are pregnant?
As hard as it is to tell your mom, it will be so much worse if you don't tell her.
Just go to her and say, mom, I need to talk to you.
2007-02-09 22:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by Raina 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm your mom doesnt know that you have a baby?
2007-02-09 22:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by mack_angel121 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋