1-what is masterbate???
2-how do guys make sperm come out? does it when they pee?
3-how long does sex ususally last?
4- reason for all these questions is my bf isnt a virgin and he's coming to my house on sunday!! p.s.- he's been kissing me alot and feeling me when he hugs so im pretty sure it will happen so plz help!.
2007-02-09 14:48:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I'll tell you the same thing I tell all girls. I'm a guy and I know what guys want. All we want is one thing and that is sex. We will tell you anything and everything to get it. If you are not educated on sex dont do it. You could get pregnant and 9 out of 10 he is gonna leave. And if he has had sex before he may have collected a disease you are too young for that . I tell girls to wait its just not worth it. He will get what he wants and then he will leave.
2007-02-09 16:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by slingshot 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to someone about this your body is a temple and you dont have to let a person into your secret garden if you are not ready.I am most of the time in this hypocrisy of a woman and her love patch and i hate a woman that has sex before they are ready and hate men for the rest of there life because it dosent meat your expectation. Talk to a priest a rabbi and a monk and you will get different reason for waiting yet they will all say wait until you are married or devouted to a person where its private and not some slug of a guy who dosent know his head from a whole in the ground. You need to know alot more before you start jumpin in and out of bed with people you hardly know. sex-ed, birth control, and i wouldnt let him come near me without a condom. and no matter what you have the right to say no no no no!!!!
2007-02-09 15:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by matthew m 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As everyone else said, if you don't know the answer, then you're too young. DO NOT let your bf push you into this. Your virginity is something to be lost only when you're with THE ONE you really love, not your high school crush.
Have sex now, and you WILL regret it later.
If that still doesn't convince you not to do "it", then you MUST have a condom, or risk pregnancy and other diseases. Sexually transmitted diseases last a lifetime. Be sure of what you're getting into.
2007-02-09 15:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by so far north 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know what sex is, you're too young to have it.
Don't let your boyfriend pressure you into something you're not comfortable with or your experience will not be a pleasant one.
But if you think it will happen, definitely have condoms and a lubricant handy, however if I were you, I would wait. Get a book or go to the library and read about sex, learn how to masturbate, know where you're erogenous zones are and then you will know whether a man satisfies you or not when the time comes.
2007-02-09 15:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, on the internet and people still don't want to answer someone's questions about sex? Dude, that's messed up. First, you are doing the right thing. If you don't know something ASK!
1. Masturbation is when someone has an orgasm w/o penetration. For guys, we "stroke" our penis until we orgasm and that's when sperm comes out (come/semen). A female can also stroke a guy's penis (handjob) or use her mouth (*******) to make a guy orgasm. He can also come during vaginal or anal sex. A female can masturbate by massaging her vagina and clit (no sperm will come out, you might just get "moist".
That was probably the answer to 1 and 2 so for 3. It's a toss up. Usually, w/insertion of the penis into the vagina about 15 mins. but it varies from person to person.
4. "Pretty sure it will happen..." makes your boyfriend sound like a rapist. Don't do that, be cool. If he's a dude he probably wants to have sex. Duh, welcome to the real world. For a female, the first time might hurt. Probably want to get female input on that. Never hurts to try other stuff until you're older. Young guys don't know what they really like about sex yet, so use that to your advantage. If you want to make him come (orgasm) once or twice to just see what it's like, I'm pretty sure he won't mind (handjob/bj). Otherwise, sex is supposed to be fun last time I checked. I'm assuming you know where babies come from so if you don't want one, don't let him come inside your vagina. Duh!
2007-02-09 16:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by Rick A 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't want to offend you so I'm just going to say this as nice as I know how.You need to wait for awhile longer to have sex.If you don't know about the things you ask then I'm sure you aren't mature enough to handle the responsibilities of sex.This isn't something that you need to play with because of pregnancy or diseases.Having sex to early can mess with your head and cause allot of relationship problems later on in life.Plus if you did get pregnant you aren't old enough to work and support it.I really dought that the guy is old enough or even wants to have a kid.
2007-02-09 15:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Masturbating is making yourself orgasm.
Sperm comes out when a guy is sexually stimulated enough, either by masturbation, sex, or other means.
Sex can last anywhere from 1 minute to hours.
Only have sex with him if you are ready. Don't be coerced into sex are take that step if you aren't sure. Also be sure to have condoms ready, to avoid pregnancy and STD's.
2007-02-09 14:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by Shelley 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yeah..no. Go to like..wikipedia or something. I don't know how old you are but you sound young. I'm a virgin but I still know the answers from 1-3. We're all different though. You shouldn't be having sex because you clearly are not ready.
2007-02-09 16:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by lux<3 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when you pleasure your self sexually
When having sex after a period of time they make sperm come out or when they masterbate it comes out... And no it doesnt come out when we pee
Sex last depending and the way you have sex and the persons sexual climax
But if you do go through with it always wear a condom unless you want to get pregnant
2007-02-09 15:21:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
oh boy, you won't need to know about masturbation to have sex, this is what people do when they can't get someone to have sex with, sperm is ejaculated when a guy cums, and sex varies in length, it can be a few minutes or a few hours, depends on how good he is. But please if you don't even know the basics you are not ready for sex, so just wait.
2007-02-09 14:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by *Jenny from the block* 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋