This guy i have been with for 9 months (no titles at his request) cheats all the time. He does a lot for me finanically..and I love him and his son. I have keys to his cars and his house...so I know that i must be the main chick. But recently, I messed around and he found out. He was mad as hell and always throws it up in my face. Why is it okay for him to cheat and not me??!!
2007-02-09 14:38:42 · 31 answers · asked by angie20k 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i know people say, 2 wrongs dont make a right ...but if he can do it to you, then you can do it to him.... its called revenge!..it may NOT be right but now you got even with him... but both of you shouldn't choose to cheat anymore now that your both even
2007-02-09 14:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but, I wouldn't have allowed this guy to cheat. Even if is for financial reason. I would have left him a long time ago. When you cheated on him I don't think it was financial reasons? Anyways, what I would do is leave him only because it's not working out and find someone who will make you happy. From the sound of it you deserve better than him.
2007-02-09 22:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by ********* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't u break up with him and save yourself some stress.Keep dating that same negative dude will make you age and your health will decrease because of stress and anxiety wondering if or has he cheated . An its also can mess you physically having sex with other men to fix the pain you feel cause he cheated.Getting revenge on him is really hurting you keep sleeping with other dudes to get back at him and watch you end being infertile or having some kind of cervical disease later in your years .When you find a man wanting to treat you like you are suppose be treated.There are good guys out their and he isn't one of them so dump that MAN.
2007-02-09 22:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The main thing I would like to point out is that you 2 are running a game on each other that is more than Finance. Don't you know what an STD is? Ugh. And if he has a kid he should be spending time with the kid, not a bunch of girls trying to have more kids. Unless he's cheating on you with guys.
2007-02-09 22:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel when you he cheats on you? Now you have brought yourself to the same level as him. It sounds like you are staying with him because he pays the bills and has given you some keys. It is not OK for either party to cheat in a committed relationship. You should move on......
2007-02-09 22:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by thrill88 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he likes to be in control. If you're ok with being controled I guess you'll deal with it, if not then remember it's never ok to cheat, so instead of doing it leave his but behind. People only cheat when they're not happy.
2007-02-09 22:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anna Hennings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you together or not?
Sounds like your his best bud with benefits.
You got to have a relationship to be a cheater.
Did you cheat in his house or car? it could be something you are missing.
2007-02-09 22:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do it just because he does it. I do it because I really like the other guy and I can't stop thinking about him. I really don't know if my boyfriend is cheating because I can honestly say ,to hell with it.
2007-02-09 22:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ericqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not ok and it's not ok for him to cheat. You need to get mad as hell and throw it up in HIS face. Or.......
How about finding a new man?
2007-02-09 22:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ ☆ StarLiteGrl~98☼1 ☆ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok for him to cheat because he doesn't care about you. It's not ok for you to cheat because he feels that he owns you and you did not ask his permission to be with another man. Even if you did ask, he'd say what the frankferter chickie poo. So no it's not ok for you to cheat, but it's ok for him because he is in control. Good luck.
2007-02-09 22:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by sminkacat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋