2007-02-09 14:30:40 · 13 answers · asked by buckeye chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would definately do things differently. It wasn't tough telling him I wanted a divorce, the hard part was making him leave the home, he just plain didn't want to move out.I had filed for divorce,but he still would not go. It was going into the six month, me ignoring him,spending all my time away from the house,not talking to him other to ask when is the moving van gonna be here? Guess what, I finally had to go back to my attorney and file a motion to have him removed from the house. And then he moved. It wasn't like he was working on the relationship and doing everything possible to save the marriage. He wasn't doing anything to communicate an interest in the relationship other than for my signature on a check every once in awhile,so I don't know why he would not move..
2007-02-09 14:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by fisherwoman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I packed and left while he was at work. He told me he prefered men and had a "thing" for the 11 year old girl next door. I told her parents and the police, packed up and left before he got home.
That was 2 years ago, I am in the divorce process now!
Only thing I would do differently is to file for divorce sooner!
2007-02-09 22:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by Serenayowlerlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably wouldn't change anything because I have the most wonderful daughter. I told him he had to move out because if he didn't I would file for divorce......needless to say after one month of him being gone I realized I didn't want him back.....now 7 months later waiting for divorce to finalize.
2007-02-09 22:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by Sharky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not have married him in the first place if i was to do it all over again. I told him it was over after i had already divorced him because he had abandoned me and my kids years earlier and i had not seen him ever again since then. He took off with no intent of ever coming back.
2007-02-09 22:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't change anything. Things are the way they are and changing them may change the little fortune that I have in my life now. Like I could say that I wish I had never married her......well then I wouldn't have the 3 wonderful little ladies in my life. I could say a lot of things would be nice to be different, but why change the happiness I have now.
2007-02-09 22:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by sdo3lg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just sat him down and told him that I wanted out and after a couple a weeks passed he decided he wasn't going to accept that so our relationship ended on a violent note. The thing I would do differently is be alot wiser in my choices now (dating and otherwise) and to make sure I no longer settle in a relationship or for the sake of being in one.
2007-02-09 22:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if you are divorced stay that way never ever ever get married again you are just getting another persons problems like buying a second hand car and the only thing i regret about my divorce is that i should have done it sooner..
2007-02-09 22:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a very painful experience. I would have gotten seperated first and gotten some conseling before getting a divorce.
2007-02-09 22:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have treated her differently, she had an affair and left me, she regrets it, I never gave up on her, we have been apart for almost 3 years, we are getting back together, if God is not a part of our lives, things never work out, I wish I would have gave my life to Jesus alot sooner......Jesus loves you
2007-02-09 22:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by Bert 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be a better listener. Nothing says "I love you" like making an effort and listening to what your mate is saying.
2007-02-09 22:35:09 · answer #10 · answered by edjumacation 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋