...she yells too much without her getting mad and yelling at me?
Well, how!?
2007-02-09 14:28:42 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yell back a few times...that would probably shock the crap out of her! lol...
2007-02-09 16:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question if this is a true situation. True if your wife is certain to always respond exactly the same regardless of the conditions and variables involved.
There has to be something that has made her happy and laugh. You married her and if this is how she has always been then you must have liked it enough to marry her. People don't change all that much.
Look to the conditions of a good time with her and implement them into the conditions of the present. Take her to that happy place where she can be understanding and listen. If there were never such a place then counseling is the only way to modify a conditioned response or correct poor communication skills.
2007-02-09 22:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by moire1111 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you just need to sit her down and have a quiet talk. Its important first to make her know that you aren't attacking her...therefore she won't come back at you in anger. Start by telling her your feelings and how it doesn't feel great with how you guys have communicating lately. Then I would ask her if there are anything that she thinks the BOTH of you can work on together. The key is to not attack her and look at the problem and seeing how to solve it as a team rather than placing blame on her which would probably provoke anger and yelling...good luck. :)
2007-02-09 22:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by morgan0308 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she likes yelling at you? or why she yells at you? There must be a reason. Does she yell at anyone else? Yelling tires you out so I doubt she likes doing it. Ask her if you can talk to her, sometimes you yell so much, you forget what it is like to just talk
2007-02-09 22:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write he a letter and tell her that you feels she yells too much over petty thinks and that you would like to help her not yell so much ....
2007-02-09 22:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by c0mplicated_s0ul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
offer to make her a peanut butter sandwich put lots on the bread. while she is eating tell her to quit yelling so much and that if she don't you will yell back at her.
2007-02-10 02:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her when you're both in a good mood.Take her out to eat and try to communicate with her about your issues with her.Listen to her because you might have to hear her side.There's three sides to every story,your side,her side and the truth.Good Luck and I hope that you two can work out your differences.
2007-02-09 22:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time she yells, put in some earplugs infront of her.
2007-02-09 22:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by ididElvis 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her yelling hurts your feelings
2007-02-09 22:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to wait until your done talking to interrupt and get mad.
2007-02-09 22:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by Wht Hare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋