How do you honestly feel about the parents of those out of control kids. Do you think they kept the simple rules everyone else uses to get their house in order. I wonder if they ever spanked or really punished/chastised or gave the kids consequences for their actions. The rules and regulations the nannies implement are really simple and everyone always says they never thought of that. I am wondering how come.
What are you wondering/thinking?
2007-02-09 14:25:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Television
I am surprised at some of the answers I have been getting. In a good way though, I am totally agreeing with alot of you with how your/my parents would have knocked the living h3ll out of me if I even thought of acting out like that. Keep 'em coming, cause I would like to know that some parents still descipline responsible. I have been looked down at a couple of times for popping my son in public. But he and I can guarantee that his behavior has not happened again. He is turning into a teenager and I smelling his draws and that is to be expected.
Sometimes watching that show has me second guessing my parenting but then if I did that with a teenager, in my opinion I would be in the same situation as those parents.
I just refuse to let a child curse, spit, throw, and hit me. (and he hasn't ever done that)
Yea Son. Love Ya
2007-02-09 14:53:46 · update #1
it has to be staged. i cannot imagine some of the kids. we would have been killed by our parents
2007-02-09 14:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by -------- 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Parents really just need to find a middle ground. I see families on both ends of the extreme on that show. There are a lot who just don't care what their kids do or are too lazy to get up and parent them and set some rules and boundaries, so they just completely ignore their behavior and let them do what they want. I see other parents on there that just scream at the kids all day and smack them around...and the kids are just as aggressive as their parents, and, while they may be being "punished" for their behavior, they aren't being taught why their behavior is wrong and taught how to make better choices. You need to set rules and have a good balance between discipline and love. I don't think spanking is always wrong, but it's not a magical cure for problems like this either. And again, if you over do it, it can cause more harm and behavior problems than good.
2015-03-24 15:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree, I dont understand how you can let your kids get to that point. I have an 8 1/2 month old little girl and even at this age there are habbit that I already have stopped her from picking up (like sleeping in our bed, being held 24/7). Having a baby/child is extremely hard work, and having friends with 2-3 year olds and also having a 2 1/2 YO nephew I understand taht disciplining them properly can be time consuming, and frustrating. But seeing kids like that, that has to be 10000% harder then putting in a slight bit of effort when they are younger and having them being well mannered, good children. It's just plain laziness on the part of the parents. But yeah I want to slap them too.
2016-05-24 19:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does seem they have missed the boat. As a teacher, I am lucky enough to meet with parents on a regular basis. I will tell you that what you are seeing on that show (although not always to that extent) is not uncommon. People are clueless when it comes to disciplining children. There is a word almost everyone of them needs to learn....it is Respect.
2007-02-09 14:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by KS 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I also watch this show and shake my head. How do these kids get this bad?? All it takes is simple parenting...
If I ever acted like some of those kids do, I really believe my mother would have killed me.
2007-02-09 14:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the parents have no order or control of thier house, i feel bad for them in a way but, then again, i look at my toddler and i can't understand how in the world anyone can let things get that out of control, i dont beat my child but he gets his hand smacked for being into something he's not supposed to be in,..sometimes people let their commonsense leave when it comes to raising thier kids. sometimes it has to be more about safety and respect than having a child who gets everything they want..
2007-02-09 14:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by tazbadass 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The parents seem like those kind of people that think that their way of parenting is best. If they spanked or grounded their kids they probably wouldnt have this problem
2007-02-09 14:33:45 · answer #7 · answered by msX 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm with ya on this one. I mean, I can't believe how these kids act! It just makes me wonder if it is really real. I mean, do people really let their children behave that horribly? That's just nonsense. Children need discipline. If you don't give a child boundaries, they will just run all over you.
2007-02-09 18:05:53 · answer #8 · answered by mommyof2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They have probably never thought of doing that because they were never taught those rules and regulations. We are products of our parents, and that's why they don't know how to parent our children.
2007-02-09 14:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they were just inexperienced when they started having kids. I have to say though, just watching those shows make me realize how lucky I am to have kids that behave.(most of the time).
2007-02-09 14:33:51 · answer #10 · answered by mom of 7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The parents are pushovers who let their kids run the house because they don't know how to use proper discipline.
2007-02-09 14:28:13 · answer #11 · answered by McLovin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋