ok so I got pregnant it was not planned... But i was the bigger person and I took the consequences of my action... And now some 18 yr old ho that sleeps with my 32 yr old brother thinks that she can judge me. And talk about this situation like she knows what is happening and send people to tell me stuff like she is incapable... And when she was the one that got pregnant and aborted it...ANd i dont talk about her cuz i could care less... WHY IS SHE MEDDLING IN MY LIFE!!!!!????
Dont they respect the fact that you are pregnant...
2007-02-09 14:23:32 · 27 answers · asked by Princess 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Im 22 and weve been in this fight for months well she had been fighting with herself because I leave her alone because I really dont care what she does.. And now she is talking **** about me the baby and the dad...
2007-02-09 14:28:18 · update #1
Jealous of her??? ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!! We call her the local HO cuz guys sneek into her room and she ***** them I was her friend I should know!!! And she called me a Ho because i got pregnant!!!
2007-02-09 14:29:43 · update #2
THANK YOU ALL SOOOO MUCH THAT MADE ME FEEL BETTER...
AND FOR THE HATER... I dont need you to talk **** cuz I already got that... And i have no problem reporting people!!!If you have nothing nice to say then SHUT THE **** UP!!!
2007-02-09 14:37:47 · update #3
No they don't respect that you are pregnant. I am 21 and got pregnant on accident too. I have had my "friends" tell me, "Being a single mother is too hard, you should have an abortion." I don't talk to them anymore. I applaud you for taking responsibility and keeping this baby. I cant give you any advice really, because when it happens to me, I just ignore them. I do, however, feel deeply hurt inside. But you're doing whats right, and she is obviously immature. Just ignore her. Good luck. :)
2007-02-09 14:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by shugarmagnolia420 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is only 18 and you could care less about what she does why do you care what she says about you. Let it go. Maybe she realizes now that she should have done the same when she became pregnant and is envious that you were the better person and acted responsibly when she took the coward's way out. Don't let what she says bother you. Tell her face to face to please leave you alone and stop aggravating you. Tell her if you want her advice you will ask her. The main thing though is to not let her bother you...
2007-02-09 14:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because she is an imature arrogant idiot who thinks other peoples lives are her business when in fact the situation has nothing to do with her and of course she should just stay out of it, but you already know that and I am sorry that I can't give you any advice to make her act more like an adult, but we can't control other people. The only thing you can do is what you are already doing. Ignore her. For some reason, she thinks she is better than other people (aren't people like that annoying?)
2007-02-09 14:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People who put others down are doing it to make themselves look better. The town Ho is directing the attention away from her by talking about you.
What is your 32 yr old brother doing with an 18 yr old S**T?? Not everyone gets HIV from sleeping around. There's Gonorrhea, Herpes & Syphilis as well.
2007-02-09 14:37:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's probably jealous. You have the strength and courage to go thru with it. She only wishes that she could have it. Take it as a compliment. She will never forgive herself for aborting a baby, or ever forget it....that is her sentance to deal with. Don't act like it bothers you one bit. That is what she wants, to get a reation out of you. If you give in, she wins. But, in all reality, you win, because you are starting your own life and family. Good Luck!
2007-02-09 14:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
look, this is a public sight, so if you are not willing to hear what everyone has to say, nice or not, maybe you shouldn't post questions on here. there is always a critic. and actually no, no one cares that you are pregnant besides you, honestly. obviously it's not keeping her from talking crap behind your back. i would front her out about it. talk to her directly about all the things that she has said or that you have heard that she said. most people will **** the hell up after they are confronted. if she doesn't, there really isn't anything you can do.
2007-02-09 15:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you have an awesome gift coming your way. None of that other stuff is important. Just remember, sticks and stones...
The fact that she did have an abortion could have a play in how she is acting. The majority of women who have abortions end up with a deep since of guilt and remorse. This could be her way of trying to cover up her feeling, by tearing you down a bit. Best of luck with your baby!
2007-02-09 14:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am pregnant unplanned also don't let some one that is shollow get to you just keep being the bigger person and ignor it she is probly just jelous because she didn't have the balls to step up and be a parent went her mistake came to bite her in the butt. an if you feel need ask her what her problem is confront her on it and see if she has da balls to say something to you.
Good luck your doing the right thing.
2007-02-09 14:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by LoVn2bAmOmMy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to get an abortion so she feels better about herself, since she got an abortion.
Of course, that is no reason for you to do so.
Tell her and her messengers to leave you alone. You don't need any extra stress. Tell your brother that, too, so everyone is on the same page.
Good luck!
2007-02-09 14:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by Susan M 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she's an 18yo ho, I wouldn't expect that she would respect ANYTHING. I applaud the choices that you have made, and I hope that you keep reminding yourself that you are doing the best thing for you, you don't owe her or anyone else an explanation, and for your health, you need to stay as far away from her and negative people like her as possible!!
2007-02-09 14:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by sacanda_trina 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋