i just met a guy twice. He is nice and i think he likes me. he is a foreigner living in my town.
His communication type is sending sms to my cell phone but never calls me (i dont know why). besides, he often send me sms for invitation around 1 hour before the dating time. Why cant he do it earlier, e.g few hours or even one day in advance?
Whenever he wants to invite me for cinema or coffee out, he always sends sms like " How are u" then " what r u doing now" then " would u like to go to the cinema"
why doesnt he ask " do u have time for the cinema now" and thats enough??. There is no need to send such 3 or 4 messages for that stuff., as I think.
besides, he wants to meet me at weekends only, NOT on weekdays, i.e after working hours. why is that?
What is he thinking? Is he serious? What should i do?
p.s: he is living alone and he is not married
2007-02-09 14:01:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he is a foreigner perhaps coffee and a conversation might just do you some good. Not knowing where he is from doesn't leave a lot of room for you to guess about their dating etiquette and culture. Perhaps he is going about things properly, if he were at home!
Sounds quite interested, give him a chance and actually get to know him!
2007-02-09 14:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by Miss. Persephone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should relax and get to know him. If you have only met him a couple of times then you are worrying too much. Besides you said he was a foreigner so maybe his English isn't very good. The reason he probably doesn't contact you during the week is because he is busy working and just wants to relax in the evening. As women we worry and analize every little detail when we need to just enjoy life and take things as they are instead of looking for problems. When you meet up with him you should ask him these questions instead of speculating and drawing your own conclusions.
2007-02-09 22:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sara G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as the timing, he may may come from a culture that is male dominate. He says jump, you just do it..don't ask how high. As far as the messaging...he may think he sounds funny to you if he has a pronounced accent. If not, then he's either shy or wierd. Weekends may be his only time off, or he may think it's your only available time.
As with any new person now-a-days, be careful. Meet in seperate vehicles, park in lit areas of the lot. Ask him if he can go to a show or to eat during the week. Suprise him. Some foreign cultures frown on women being strong. Don't let him assume you are weak. If he gets jittery, then cross him off the list.
2007-02-09 22:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by unclewill67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest that the next time you meet with him that you politely suggest to him you need more advance notice and address the fact that the only time he wants to see you are at certain times that you might have other plans, or ask him his reasoning, i would also ask @ thru the week, if he is truly interested one would think he 'd want to see you more than 1-2 times a week. these are all valid issues i myself would bring up to him
2007-02-09 22:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him exactly what you just wrote here.
Also, the only way to find out what he is thinking is by asking him yourself.
Good luck.
2007-02-09 22:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by limited_edition78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you need more advance notice....that should take care of things...
2007-02-09 22:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by bertha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why arn't you asking him these questions???
we don't know...
2007-02-09 22:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋