why do i constantly keep dreaming about this girl?

Question

starting last week, i have started having dreams about the girl that i like. It started last week, when i dreampt about an event that never happened intermingled with the real, involving the first time i saw her in 4th grade at the daycare i was at, around easter. But the dream said that she was at the new after school program i attended in 5th grade, and she was in a chorus, (in real life, shes in the school chorus) and they were singing church songs from around the same time that i saw her the 1st time. A week later, after i put in my name to send her some valentines day candy I had a bit simpler dream, involving a train, my graduation, and me trying to get my hands on her family picture, only something was a innacurate everytime i looked at it until it turned to a ruined film. Then i had a dream that she had an attachment disorder, like in the movie child of rage, and it was the same setting, and a friend was helping her. the only cause i can think of is a recent schedule chang

Answer 1

Your destiny is written in the stars. All will be well. Don't worry about it.

Answer 2

To understand a dream, it’s helpful to keep in mind why and how we dream. When we sleep, the body and perception systems are shut down, but the brain remains active. The brain thinks about what has recently been most active during waking hours—experiences, thoughts and feelings accessed recently whether consciously or not. The brain is still active, so it works on this content, but not in a familiar, rational way. During sleep, this material is not related using input from the external real world, but rather by the brain connections already established in the cortex. So the story connectedness isn’t like everyday experience, but rather a strange, circuitous flow from one image to the next. So dreams aren’t magical messages to guide our life, but dream imagery is taken from everyday experiences, thoughts and feelings that matter most to us during our waking life. So it’s a mistake to apply standard symbol definitions, such as Freudian meanings or standard “dreammoods” symbols. All you need to do is think about what kind of imagery it is and how it relates to your daily life.

Not to worry. What's going on is that you have strong feelings for this girl, and you think about her a lot, both consciously and unconsciously. These images are very active, so they are in your brain when sleeping, and you associate various scenarios. Very common, very healthy dreams! One might even say, well....you're in love!