I would never tolerate such a thing. I don't care how lonely I get. It will most likely that I use the guy for company. But anyway, that's not the point. Tell me what you think?
2007-02-09 13:31:56 · 26 answers · asked by . 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
I have been in this type of situation before, and I'm sure other women have as well. The reason these girls do this is because they are holding on to hope that these guys will change for the better. In their minds their thinking that the guy will be that nice person they met when the relationship first started. They honestly believe that things will get better, and that the guy will change. I learned that holding on to that type of hope is crazy because some guys never change. You can't change a person for the better. They have to realize they have a problem first, and then decide for themselves whether they want to make a change. Once they do this then things could get better. Otherwise these girls are just holding on to false hope, and wasting a lot of their time and energy. Sometimes we have to hit rock bottom to come back to our senses and do the right thing. Hopefully some of these girls won't have to do that.
2007-02-10 06:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most girls in that kind of situation truly believe that they love the guy, and believe that they love her back. Some believe they will change over time, and realize what a "good thing" they have. I'd say most of it is because of their low self-esteem..they don't think they can do any better, or they're insecure and don't want to be alone. This is bogus though, because we all know that we can't change people, men or women. If there is abuse in the relationship...sometimes they feel as if they can't leave, or something bad will happen. Some women even become psychologically addicted to the abuse, and feel that they deserve it for whatever reason. Love is a messed up thing.
2007-02-09 13:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They may be using the guy for something...maybe the guy spends tons of money on her, gives her a place to stay, etc. I think some girls just would rather be with a loser than be by themselves. So you are right and that girls do use guys for company. Not me! If I'm lonely I'll get a dog!
2007-02-09 13:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by alt-country_fan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
after appearing somewhat learn in my Psychology field, i might say that the lady in all probability suffers from low shallowness (whether she admits it or no longer). this in all probability got here from no love at residing house, with friends, or and so on. additionally, a traumatic adventure could desire to bring about this low shallowness subject besides. I even have found that those form of individuals (guy or lady) tend to stay in an abusive relationship because of the fact they're a minimum of feeling some love of a few form. surely, in a nut shell, a individual like this might extremely have somebody terrible than no longer have all and diverse in any respect...
2016-11-03 00:54:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of women/girls get caught up in these type of relationships not knowing, alot of women/girls are attracted to men that treat them poorly. Once they are in, its often hard to get out. I think alot of them (Not all) enjoy all the term oil and drama. Why because they have low self esteem, or they just prefer the problematic bad boy, rather than what they perceive as the (Boring nice, responsible guy)
2007-02-09 13:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the need to feel loved that keeps them in that kind of situation. I have a friend (seriously) and her boyfriend hit her with a shoe like a week ago in school and she knows he cheats on her but she wouldn't let him go until a couple of days ago she was like' I'm going to work on getting over him
2007-02-10 03:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he's a challenge. He's a negative challenge, but he's not a doormat. A challenge is at least "interesting". A wimp is a bore.
And they lack the confidence and character to attract a real gentleman.
2007-02-09 16:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls just want attention. They will do just about anything for the first person that comes along and makes them feel special. They tend to neglect the bad things about the boy, and just focus on how they make them feel. Weird, I know, but it can happen to just about any girl.
2007-02-09 13:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they identify any kind of attention as positive attention. They often are under the assumption that even negative attention is good for them and what they deserve. It's really an unfortuate disorder.
2007-02-09 13:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They prefer to be in a bad relationship than be single. They might think that being without a boyfried makes them look like a loser. They're just plain insecue.
2007-02-09 13:36:43 · answer #10 · answered by icu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋