2007-02-09 13:16:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I take it you're the father. Yeah, do your best. You might end up a crappy dad, and she'll find a better more suitable man. In the meantime, you're the best dad that baby has, grow up.
2007-02-09 13:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by badbadboy6979 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well duh! I mean, if you were ready to have sex, obviously you should be ready to handle the consequences of your actions. Yes, it will be extreemely difficult, but it is your baby, and you are responsible for it. You dont see the girl running away from it do you? Do you think just because it's not in YOUR stomache, then you have nothing to do with it? It was your little soldiers that created the child, so you need to grow up and take responsibility for what you did.....
2007-02-09 21:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Even if you aren't ready to actually take care of the child, you should make it a strong point to be there for them. As of right now, you and your partner are the only parents they have. Get a job and finish your education too. You should provide for the organism that shares your flesh and blood.
2007-02-09 21:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by tahirih.luvs2sew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ready or not, you've got a responsibility.
You have two choices:
Accept the responsibilities of fatherhood and like a man take on the role of father and marry the mother.
Or....Sign away your paternal rights and make it easy for the mother to place the child up for adoption.
Adoption is the best choice if you do not marry the mother.
2007-02-09 21:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by WhatAmI? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, do what is right. Life doesn't normally wait for us to be ready, so step up to the plate. You didn't stop to think if you were ready when you were busy creating said child, did you? If we all waited for conditions to be ideal before tackling the world, no one would ever do anything.
2007-02-09 21:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready, you should get ready, and then take responsibility, and do so quickly. This child needs parents.
2007-02-09 21:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should take responsibility, it doesn't matter whether you are ready or not. The child is yours, do whatever you can to support him or her, in every way possible, you won't regret it.
2007-02-09 22:23:36 · answer #7 · answered by cheryl j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should most certainly take responsibility for your actions.Do the right thing this child needs parents. You should have used protection,and this would not have happened.Now you take the responsibility.Be a man and do the right thing.
2007-02-13 14:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by canteloupesweet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If God saw fit to give you a child then he will give you what you need to take care of that child if youo trust him. Yes, you should take responsibility. God will make you ready even if you are not.
2007-02-09 21:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by The Lamb of Vista 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you addmitted you are responsible so what I believe you are lookiing for is validation or a way out.
This child did not ask to be born. so unless the mom is chasing you away. step up to the plate and be a man.
2007-02-09 21:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by andreamarie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes you f****** should! if you're responsible enough to be doing that sort of thing then you better get responsible and take care of YOUR child!
2007-02-09 21:30:47 · answer #11 · answered by jess o 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋