Men only pls, tell me what i should do now?
i just met a guy twice. He is nice and i think he likes me. he is a foreigner living in my town.
His communication type is sending sms to my cell phone but never calls me (i dont know why). besides, he often send me sms for invitation around 1 hour before the dating time. Why cant he do it earlier, e.g few hours or even one day in advance?
Whenever he wants to invite me for cinema or coffee out, he always sends sms like " How are u" then " what r u doing now" then " would u like to go to the cinema"
why doesnt he ask " do u have time for the cinema now" and thats enough??. There is no need to send such 3 or 4 messages for that stuff., as I think.
besides, he wants to meet me at weekends only, NOT on weekdays, i.e after working hours. why is that?
What is he thinking? Is he serious? What should i do?
p.s: he is living alone and he is not married
2007-02-09 13:15:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why do you keep asking the same question??? You've asked this before.
Personally, I think he's hiding something from you.
2007-02-09 13:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably socially awkward. If he is foreign, he is learning the language and (in this case, more importantly) the culture. He probably doesn't know any better.
What you should do depends entirely on you. Do you like him? Do you like him enough to deal with his socially awkward behavior? If you can't say yes to both, you shouldn't waste his time. It sounds like he is a good guy. If you can say yes to the first but not the second, you have to decide if it is worth the effort to help him adjust socially first.
2007-02-09 13:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by cy ko tic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
Why not ask him out during the week if you want to. Call him once in a while. Maybe he's shy. Talk to him about it. If you dont like him, then dont go out with him. Its as simple as that. If you do, try making more of an effort.
2007-02-09 13:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a male here but it sounds like he is married....how do you know he lives alone and is not married,because he told you he is single...if he was he would have you over,and he would not just send sms messages 1 hour before he can get away to see you.... have you been to his place,called his home phone number ..he is not serious and dump him
2007-02-09 13:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by charmel5496 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may want to date you and get to know you better. This is normal for a guy to want to do this as he is interested in you. He just wants to date you and maybe be your boyfriend. I dont think he is serious though.
2007-02-09 13:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i'm a male and it sounds like he's trying to keep you on the dl, and does he ask about going somewhere else like to another town? just confront him about the short notices, but don't get defensive.
2007-02-09 13:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by spiffstar2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore the previous. what occurred won't be able to be undone. attempt to study from the experience. ignore the discomfort and be solid pal. Its not like the international ha ended. flow ahead on your existence and benefit your objectives.
2016-11-26 20:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Educate him. He's not serious if everything is just before the event occurs.
2007-02-09 13:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wanted a partner for enjoy
2007-02-09 13:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him this question.
2007-02-09 13:20:05 · answer #10 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋