ok as u all know my husband and I are having our first baby due july 15 we have been together 5 years and i totally trust him but i asked him if he was gonna stay around until this baby is grown up and he said yes but he didn't answer right away and he didn't look me in the eyes... is he lieing
2007-02-09 12:45:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
He was probably thrown off by you asking him a question like that. I mean hes your husband and youve been together for 5 years I think he plans on being there
2007-02-09 12:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by Oops! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are married, you supposedly have chosen a lifetime commitment to one another. Why would you even ask him if he is going to stay around until the baby is grown? Did he not want children? did he give you reason to believe he may leave? I wouldnt need to ask my husband because before we were married, we discussed children and if we wanted them and things of that sort. Also, although this child i am expecting was a suprise, he has never given me reason to ask him if he plans to stay. I do not understand why you asked in the first place.
2007-02-09 13:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by misty n justin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
New fathers are always scared. He probably was shocked you at that question after 5 years pf being together too. When we are pregnant are hormones are a muck, and that's your reason for doubt, it's normal. Keep trusting in your love to many people give up, hold on to the beautiful relationship you have started.
2007-02-09 12:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by zyann0102 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok it sounds like you have major trust issues or major pregnancy hormones kicking in. You have been together five years and should know him really well in that length of time. Has he ever lied to you about a serious issue b4 or abandoned you? If not then the chances are slim to none that it wont happen after he holds his newborn in his hands for the first time. Sounds like you need to quit nagging him about issues that arent even present yet. If you have abandonment issues you need to go see a therapist. Good luck and congrats on your little one!!
2007-02-09 12:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by pinkjet 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound like me :) When I'm pregnant my hubby is the first to know because I start asking crazy questions I'd never ask! And, I cry at the drop of a hat...even a Gateway commercial caused me to run like a faucet.
Just ask why he hesitated when you asked. I'm sure he was just thrown off by the question.
2007-02-09 13:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by Baby #3 due 10/13/09 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok why would you ask him that question, do you plan on divorcing him sometime soon? If that is your husband he is probably in shock you would ask him something like that and is thinking you may want to leave him.
If you trust him then take his word for it. If you doubt his word then sit down and talk to him about it face to face and then go from there .
My husband cant lie to save his life..
2007-02-09 12:49:36 · answer #6 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
That question probably threw him off being that you have been married for 5 years. Also you should know if your husband is lying to you as long as you have been together.
2007-02-09 13:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by missingNYC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him you should not ask this question here on Yahoo. Sometimes relationships breaks due to suspicious behaviour towards your partner. May be you just asked him an unexpected question. If my wife ask this question I will tell her to answer this question for me because we trust each other. But I will not blame you at this time because pregnancy changes your behaviour many times
2007-02-09 12:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by baniban2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may have insulted him by asking the question and caught him off gaurd. He may have been bitting his tounge to keep from saying something out of anger and that is why you got that kind of response. My husband would be incredibly offended if I asked him that. What if he had ask you if you had any plans to run of with your yoga teacher and abandon your child? Wouldn't you be a little ticked that he thought so little of you he had to ask?
2007-02-09 13:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He probably didnt expect that type of question, so maybe he just rattled off...yes...in a sort of unexpected manner. You need to ask him again for reassurance. When you are pregnant, your hormones do strange things to you, make you more emotional, more worrisome and other things....(I'm a female too). I wouldnt worry. But yes, no eye contact is one way of determining if someone is lying...but your question has more to it.
2007-02-09 12:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by cin* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋