Do you think mixed-girls are beautiful pt.2?

Question

I just want to add that I am not focusing on the race, but people do. I live in a black area, and I feel like the black girls don't get the same kind of attention if they don't have that lightskinned long haired look. I personally think it's to do with a lot of especially hip-hop music videos, where there is a certain image portrayed and the closest you'll find to it on the streets is a mixed girl. And I do know that for a fact some of the mixed girls I know are stuck up because they know they'll get men without tryin hard. People think i'm the same, i'm not in any way, my dad is african and its a strong part of my culture, but I wanted to know what others thought...

Answer 1

I agree. I see it all the time. Sad. When I was in high school, there was a kid at my church who told our youth group that he would NEVER date a darkskinned girl - he only talked to light skinned girls. Of course the irony was that he was ver dark skinned... I was like your own mother is darkskinned! How could you even think that way? Do you think your mother is ugly??? What about when you have kids - dont you think they'll get some of their color from you?? He was baffled - just kinda like "umm... I dont know"...

Its all just a bunch of crap people need to let go of. Stop the vicious cycle of self-hate (because that's what it is), and learn to love you. Regardless of where the motivation came from to not embrace what makes you, you HAVE to let it go. Or you'll fall into the same traps over and over, and teach that same thing to the next generation.

Answer 2

As a mixed race man, I must agree that many mixed race women are seen as a bridge for those of one race, who are open to women from other races. This is likely to be becuase they share some common experience - even if only past on from parents.
However, if you look at a mixed race child, they too are often seen as particularly beautiful.
Regarding attitude - a hard truth is that black women are often 'seen' to be aggressive and this is even noted by many black men; especially if they are not in the company of black women. As for mixed race women, if they are stuck up, it really shouldn't be seen as any different to any girl that knows she is more attractive than her mates. We all know girls that 'give it', just because they know they are more desirable and this has little to do with race. If you lived in a more white area, you would likely feel the same about white girls, who you percieve to be more attractive. In fact, I bet you can even see this in your black girlfriends, if you are out and there are no white or mixed race girls around. It is the nature of sexual competition.
But really, does it matter how they are? All that is really important is that you see yourself as attractive (not just physically) and that you do not allow others to make you feel less so. It is their personalities that will let them down, if all they have is their idea of how attractive they are.

As for me... blummin gorgeous love. Sorry, but it's true!

Answer 3

Mixed girls are great looking some how they just seem to get the best of both races and end up looking really good but in the end its personality that matters not looks those are just a nice thing to have as well so if your a good looking female please never get cocky about your looks cause you seem sweet as you are. And yeah they might get the guys but how long do they keep them? And do the guys really respect them if they are only with the mixed chick cause she is hot?

Answer 4

Yes, in general.

I know I step on very treacherous ground here, as it's difficult to discuss anything pertaining to race or sexuality without being labelled homophobic or a racist. The fact that I know I am neither without having to count off friends of a different race, orientation (or both) may serve to salve some of these accusations, but I digress...

I don't just think the mixed race thing is strictly a black thing though- I've known quite a lot of mixed race people from all sorts of combinations who are very attractive, and I have a couple of theories as to why this is a common thing..

One is genetic- we're programmed to breed out for good reasons- a broader gene pool is a survival trait in a Darwinian sense, which makes it a subconscious recognition of a genetic advantage.

Also on the theme of genes, a lot of the more distinctive features of any ethnic group are "ironed out" by interbreeding, resulting in kids who gain a more "even" apperance, often ceasing to be immediately recognisable as part of a particular racial group. (AKA the Mariah Carey effect)

Another possibility is that people have two conflicting drives, neophilia (love of new or different things) and neophobia. (fear of the same)

Think about taste in food as an example. (not such a random parallel as you might think - certain observed social protocols across different societies have shown that the two basics of human life are often treated with similarly structured social rules)

I bet each of you know at least one of each of the following:

Someone who'll only ever eat dishes with which they are familiar, always searching for the familiar options, even in ethnic-specialty restaurants

Someone with a passion for trying out all sorts of food from a wide geographical range, or a passion for a particular type of "exotic" cuisine. Maybe they even have a gastronmic world tour planned...

And, no doubt, every shade in between.

Similarly, there are people who like to date their own race exclusively, those that have no real preference, and those with a specific preference for another specific ethnic group. Hopefully no-one deliberately sets out with a map of the world to cross countries off as some gastronomic explorers do...

I think the thing about mixed-race people is that they satisfy both conflicting needs by being partly "familiar" and partly "exotic".

Answer 5

well they can be beautiful but if they don't have a nice attitude they might as well be the ugliest person on the block...but you seem really cool and since you don't appear to have that lil' stuck up attitude you could also get some guys without being bitchie about it. Just be yourself. I am tottally mixed I have spaniard, french, american indian, and mexican in me and frankly i believe it is who i am rather than what i am that matters.

Answer 6

There is someone out there for everybody, we all look for different things, frequently subconsciously, the fact of being black, white , or half-cast is neither here nor there.
A lithe trim jet black girl looks good to me, but so do many others.
Its also a fact we all get older and bits droop or go south so its your intellect that will count in the end.

Answer 7

Why would somebody be stook up because of their skin colour or race "Mixed Race" Not all of them are fine, there are some damn fine Dark girls, and Some Damn fine White Girls.

After all though that dosent matter because beauty is in the eye of the beholder

But saying that i think mioxed girls are fine, and so are dark girls and so are white girlies.

Answer 8

It dosn't matter what race, colour or mix they are, there are some girls not so good looking and some who are absolutely gorgeous. As for dark-skinned girls, I've seen some as black as ebony, but so incredibly beautiful thet it's mind numbing just to look at them, and their skin looks as smooth and sleek as black silk.

Answer 9

i'm mixed and i know wat u mean. i lived in a black/hespanic area and it was hard for me to get accepted from the black communtiy beacause they thought i was *****, but know i live in a mixed area (whites, hespanics, blacks, asians, etc) and girls still treat me like that but now white guys fall for me, back to subjest, anyways i think all women are beautiful it's just some ppl are so shallow when it comes to the length of your hair and the color of your skin

Answer 10

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