I have lived with my partner for a little over 2 years and we dont have sex as much as we once did. i can't decide whether or not it's boaring or he's just hit that stage in life. FYI im 24 and just begging my sexual prime could it be i want it more than him? any advise will help.
2007-02-09 12:08:07 · 27 answers · asked by Lillian S. Phx Arizona 4 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I'll be 30 this year and i need it twice daily or more.
maybe he got a bit on the side
kby. Call me if you want some. :)
2007-02-09 12:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by kennyboy 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, woman have there sexual peak around 30 and with men it ends about 18, so the answear is yes. The sex will be less but the love is the same. Its a normal part of aging for him and you also down the road, What myself and my wife do, I am 9 years older than her, is when its time to have sex, we make it extra special, tease each other a few days before, do something really romantic etc... and wow what a experience, intence and mind blowing.
2007-02-09 12:22:09 · answer #2 · answered by sidekick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already know the sensation once you first meet someone your all excited, your heart beats faster, you lengthy to be with them. Then after time, issues cool off, this is the customary element, the venture is protecting that fireplace alive. look to new options at spicing up the affection existence. Have sex in a unique position, try quite some issues, supply a rubdown or receive one. Play the hookup sport, plan to satisfy at a club, yet loiter round for awhile without hooking up, search for suggestion from with human beings, etc. Have some beverages, dance with human beings, then gradually artwork as a lot as your guy. Play flash mild tag interior the outdoor wearing in uncomplicated words your birthday matches - allow your mind's eye pass and be conscious what takes position.
2016-10-17 06:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its that a guy doesnt lose intrest just that well u said he was 30 right if he's just turned 30 he's probally feeling a little old he feels like he is falling from his prime and maybe since u r just in ur prime he feels that u may lose intrest n an older man and fall for a younger more masculant man just try to help him through this complement him and let him no that he is stil good at wot he does trust me this is just a lil phase he is going through give it another few weeks n he'll be back to normal (and just btw girl to girl i dont think guys ever really get bored with sex or lose intrest)
2007-02-09 13:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by hotnfun_2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!
I'm 50 and my sex life exploded when I was 30 to 35. What you are experiencing is what all couples go through. You've had it when ever you wanted it and it's become mundane. He still loves sex but age and the normality's of it has become a common occurrence. If you want to spice it up, start doing things that is out of the normal and get his attention back. Make him look forward to the next time you have fun.
2007-02-09 12:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not normal for men to lose interest in sex as they approach 30, or 40, or 50, or 60, or 70...
Some men *do* get a little bored after a long time with the same partner -- sorry, but they do, and apparently more than women do. Try spicing things up a little...do something you've never done, do it someplace you've never done it, try some "toys," etc. It'll probably re-pique his interest :)
2007-02-09 12:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes there is evidence that the mans sexual peak is around 18 and begins to taper off into his 20's, and by his 30's he has lost probably more then half the interest in sex he once had. And females like you said for some reason begin to speak in their late 20's into their 30's. But as to what exactly is making him not want sex as much that is the crapshoot, it could be his sex drive or hell it could be that yes it is getting boring to him. All you can do is ask and maybe try new things to see his reaction.
2007-02-09 12:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by nickhawkins21 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sexual frequency tends to drop off to about twice a week for most couples in just the first year. He sounds as if his libido is very sluggish, though. Is he on psych meds? Is he diabetic? Does he drink a lot, or smoke a lot, or use steroids? So many things can affect libido.
Who initiates? If you take the lead will he always respond? Maybe you should just tell him you need more sex.
2007-02-09 12:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is never normal for men to lose intrest in sex. Try to buy some things from Victoria Secret and suprise him. Look at some issues of Self magizine. Some of the issues from '06 would really help. Your man just needs to be reminded of what you can give him. Good Luck!!
2007-02-09 12:16:25 · answer #9 · answered by XxX2sexy4uXxX 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes it is if the man has been lonely or desperate for quite a while. but sometimes it's the oppsite. it doesn't matter if the man has been lonely for most of his life........ he could still be hornier than most men out there because there if so much porn out there especially on the internet.
but in your case try going somewher really romantic that the moment he gets there sex comes into his mind. hey if you have to be horny and a sluttt to get him to have sex just go for it and it will be most likely that your relationship and sex life will improve alot. it will improve because he'll know that you are still interested in having sex and having a horny hell of a good time. also wherever you got to have sex make sure you are wearing something nice,cute,very sluttish, and horny that all he could think about for the rest of the night is just having a good hell of a horny time with you in bed.
i wish you luck.
and hey if you have to bring out a whole new horny and slutty you... go for it. JUST get out there and have fun in bed. that way he'll want you even more.
go to victoria secret and buy soething slutty.
trust me men never get tired of sex. it's something they can't live iwthout
2007-02-09 12:18:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it's not normal to lose interest completely. It is normal in a relationship to not have sex 10 times a day after awhile. I don't think that there's anything wrong with him physically. Not to be a jerk here but maybe he is getting a little bored.
2007-02-09 12:13:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋