We had dinner together twice after working late. But now out of the blue, he asked me out for dinner, is he infatuated with me? I kind of think that he really enjoyed my company in order to feel motivated to ask.
2007-02-09 11:59:25 · 11 answers · asked by isabella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it kind of depends on the tone with which he invited you. I think it's not a flirtation EVERY time. If my husband just got done with a big project, for example, I wouldn't think too much about him taking a female coworker to dinner to celebrate. At the place I used to work when I was recently married, I had known some of my coworkers for more than 12 years, and it wouldn't have been unusual at all for me and my co-manager to have dinner, esspecially if we were working late.
That doesn't mean that it's always innocent, however. There's really no way for someone on the internet to know the intent better than you, since you were there.
2007-02-09 12:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by calliope320 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT!!! this could be your worse mistake in the world never every be the lady in the middle you dont want to be the one distroying two people joined together in the sight of god now he invited you out for dinner that could mean one or two things ,, 1 he's not happy at home or 2 he just want to have a nice time with his friend and thats you ,, i would not think anything of it but be mindfull of what could happen and i hope if the question is asked " iminterested in you " you answer wisely ,,,
now to answer you question if i would my married lady co worker out for "dinner " ni i would not because it would not look right us just going out for dinner when she has a husband at home plus we are not on bizzness lol so no
2007-02-09 12:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by PROPHET_83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a tactical difference.
1. If you work together late and just have to go out to "grab a bite", that is casual, work related meals.
2. If it is clearly not work related, then it is a social outing. This is often considered a proposition or testing the water.
If you don't want to get into trouble and it is clearly a social outing, casually suggest that if it is ok to bring your husband along. He should get the signal that you are not interested and will have to either draw a line of no misunderstanding or stop.
Remember, you should always ask if you have inadvertently transmitted an inviting signal that he is picking up on.
2007-02-09 13:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if I am married I won't. If you are married you should never have agreed to go out with him and if you are not married you should have turned him down since he is married. When one is married and the other is married or not and it is a co-worker there should be only professionalism between the two people, nothing more. Anything more is playing with fire.
2007-02-09 12:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok enable me say this as gently as i can. If she is married she should not be asking you to dinner. Her reasons are greater then approximately dinner. it incredibly is not significant which you're single you're committing adultery by using being with a married woman. If her reasons are strictly employer then be certain her hubby is usual with of which you 2 are going to dinner.
2016-10-01 21:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case hmmm let me think ehre. I would invite his wife to come to dinner with you and him eheheheeh.. I wonder how she would take this one:) Since you are married NO do not go to dinner with him have dinner with your husband and tell this loser no.. He is a loser for hititng on a married woman anyways. And if he is married he is twice the loser.
2007-02-09 12:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not appropriate unless spouses are invited too. This is one of those situations that could lead to things neither of you are prepared to handle, or that you think you are 'strong' enough to handle. MARRIED people should really give their actions a lot of thought, especially when it comes to situations involving the opposite sex.
2007-02-09 12:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU LIKE THIS MAN.
Is your husband aware you've been dining with this co-worker?
Seems like you miss the dating scene.............
If this is just truly friendship you should invite this gentleman to join you along with your husband, and make sure your husband is ok with it. If your husband doesn't mind then thats a different story. But I doubt it.
2007-02-09 12:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by Reading and Answering Your Q' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done so... but I am a nice guy, and I never intended to have it go any farther than dinner... there is such a thing as nice guys these days....
2007-02-09 12:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by Fred Phaggins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are married or going with someone no.
2007-02-09 12:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by sidekick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋