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all right i got this guy friend and he is 2 years older then me..i am (14) and he is (16). anyways my group are all thugs and gangsters that i hang out. And he is kinda the 8-pack jock. now he would like to fit in with my "clique". But he is trying really too hard. Like once he said to me "hey lets make fun of someone for fun". Like my group do make fun of people but we neevr go around asking hey you guys we are bored should we make fun of people? I think he is acting like a poser. He even talks sexual. I mean my friend is a NICE guy. he is not i repeat NOT the gangster kind.At all. So how can I make him see that i like him for who he is, not some wannabe poser.

***BTW, he is kinda scared of gangsters cuz my cliqu uses guns and knifes.so he rather be "in" our group then out cuz he knows outsiders get hurt.***

2007-02-09 11:50:08 · 9 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Family & Relationships Friends

9 answers

"hey lets make fun of someone for fun".
Umm yeah. I'm pretty sure he's joking.
If I were giving this guy advice though I would honestly say to stay away from you, especially if his safety is in danger. Stupid lines or not. when I was in school I saw so many good kids get dragged down by that...and later in college too. Like straight A students who got mixed up with the wrong crowd.
Honestly, you sound like a cool kid, but no girl is worth all that.

2007-02-09 11:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by terrence w 1 · 2 0

WOW! No wonder your friends are saying you're hanging with the wrong crowd. Drugs, alcohol and sex are not the only things that would constitute a bad influence.
You are 14 years old and you call yourself a "thug" and a "gangster" and you make fun of people for fun.
You are one sick little girl and I suggest you play with guns and knives more often.

2007-02-09 23:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by emaaaazing! 4 · 0 0

Damn wannabe gansters. Put your toy knives and waterguns away, if you want to be a bad ***, join the marines and then see if you like carrying around guns. No matter how bad you all think you are for carrying weapons, you wouldnt last a day in a situation where it really mattered on whether you knew how to use it or not.

2007-02-09 22:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron 2 · 3 0

Hon, I think both of you should get out. That group sounds scary to me. Have you ever thought that the reason he hangs out with your group is because he likes you? I think you should both find new friends while you still have your lives!

2007-02-09 20:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by Yay me!!!! 4 · 3 0

Someone needs to tell that guy TO STAY AWAY FROM YOU! My gosh! What the hell are you people thinking?! Go to school and focus on your studies.

2007-02-09 23:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by galadriel 1 · 2 0

just tell him that you think he's trying to hard and to just be himself....

the fact that your friends use knifes, guns, etc scares him, so just make sure that since he's your friend, he's safe. also let him know that he's safe because he is your friend.

good luck

-Emily

2007-02-09 19:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by Emily 3 · 0 1

maybe take him aside and tell him to lay off the act

2007-02-09 19:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by cadillacrazy 4 · 0 3

R U CRAZY?

2007-02-09 19:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by dabluvseggs@sbcglobal.net 2 · 3 0

He's not your kind.

2007-02-09 19:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 3

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