he's four hours late!!! AGAIN!
2007-02-09 11:48:22 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go pick his sorry a*ss up, and explain to him that from now on, if he can't get home by the time he says he is, you will be glad to come and pick him up, just like his mommy would do.
that...or kick him out, he may just be out having fun, but he is disrespecting your relationship.
2007-02-09 11:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by shasta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Are there things you do that he has to tolerate like this? Think about whether one of you is less considerate than the other, and talk about it first to reach some agreement. You say he's late again - is it the second time in two days, the second time in a week/month/year? I used to live near a couple who loved their weekly row over the fact that he went to the pub on Saturday night. There'd be the locked out scenario, followed by the pleading (him) and screeching (her), then there was the walking round to try the back door(past the other 20 houses in the terrace), no joy there either, then after more shouting and hammering he'd be let in the house, followed by six days of what seemed to be happy marriage.
2007-02-09 13:13:03 · answer #2 · answered by filmwatcher59 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont kick him out play him at his own game and when he starts mouthing off say either he stops whats hes done or he knows where the door is go out and enjoy yourself tomorrow night and let him stay at home for a change and remember come home 4 hours late
2007-02-09 11:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont kick him out but put the key in the door so he cant get in and dont answer when he is there kickin n shoutin just think how nice and warm you are,. then get up really early and go out shopping leave him still out. maybe have some lunch and head 2 pub see how he likes it!
2007-02-09 12:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go look him up at the pub and bring him home. If he is not at the pub then go look him up. He may be cheating with just more then just the alcohol hon.
2007-02-09 11:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's coming in four hours late AGAIN, clearly he is not trying to be there. You need to figure out WHY he doesn't want to come home.
2007-02-09 12:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I had went through that with my first husband except I did not know most of the time where he was at.Then when he did finally make it home he would be very drunk.Mine would not leave when I told him to leave.We are now divorced so good riddance.
2007-02-09 12:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is from the hubby Friday nites are mine at the pub all other days are with the family except the odd the Sunday when a big match is on but a phone call goes a long way
2007-02-09 12:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by tracywebb19 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wud say find out why he went in the first place... Did he miss an important event.. does he do this often.. if not pls give him a break cos life is really hard and sometimes one just needs to unwind.. one needs to go and think.. we all have our diff ways of unwinding
2007-02-09 11:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly what your talking about. i had a boyfriend who did that all the time. did you notice i said HAD? thats a bunch of crap! kick him out, and tell him to go live at the pub!
2007-02-09 11:53:29 · answer #10 · answered by laura s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋