My parents are not like physically fighting, they have just been ignoring eachother for 3 days now! im scared. How can i stop them from doing this
they never have done this before
usually they are mushy gush kissy kissy LOL
any advice?
2007-02-09 11:22:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They might have some misunderstanding going on, ignoring is a form of adult “hide and seek”. I guess your dad still wonders what your mum is doing and your mum still wonder if your dad had his meal.
Suggest to them, sit together talk it out. Tell them sincerely what you feel. Ask them where has the mushy gush kissy kissy stuff gone? Tell to your parent that you have fear for the past 3 days. Why is that happening? Such act will not diminish their LOVE. Moreover, they still have YOU.
Lastly, the best place to talk is your bed room. Good luck.
2007-02-09 11:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by radium 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what caused this to happen, ask them both why they're not speaking, tell them its worrying you and that your scared...
If you all sit at the table together for dinner bring it up then, they wont be angry, and remember its not your fault its probably something silly....
It is having an adverse affect on you, so tell them how you feel once you do they wont have realised it affected you that way and things will be alright again.....
Try not to worry good luck take care
2007-02-09 19:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart don't worry about it.This is normal with relationships.They are just in a fight.Waiting for one to apologize.Beleive me it will all work out.The time to worry is when they are talking.Like yelling and screaming at each other all the time.Then u have a problem.U said they are also kissy kissy.So what has happen is one is hurt and waiting for the other to apologize. They love each other and it will happen.So chill and worry about your school work.You don't have to worry about them.
2007-02-09 19:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since it has gone on for three days, I would sit them down and tell them that it's difficult to love more than one person, and since you love them both, they should do their share too. Then be silent and see how they act.
Good luck
2007-02-09 19:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by Nort 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them both that you are scared. Be honest. They need to know how this issue is affecting you. Above all, you must understand that it is not your faught.
Good Luck
2007-02-09 19:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by rapger54 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be the mediator here. you need to do with your parents what parents should do with their children when they have this problem. sit them down and have them talk it out. they are not children, the need to act like adults and work through their problems together. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-09 20:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
one , or both of them must be hurt..not just mad. they are adults and will need to handle their own problems. i know it can be worrisome. just know this-- they still love one another, and everything is fixable...just certain things may take longer to get over.
2007-02-09 19:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by shasta 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would have to say tell them that its hurting you. no matter what, try to resolve it without taking sides, watever it is.
2007-02-09 19:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋