I have asked this type of question before; now I am adding more details. I have a friend. I have reason to believe that he is not straight, but bisexual. For one, He will on occasion talk is sort of a non-straight tone, (a lisp); not that a lisp is bad; I have one. Two, he often makes very sexual references in the most unsexual of conversations. Three, he has often touched me, rubbing my arm, and also holding on to my arm; that sort of hug-hold; he will also rub me on the top of my back. And four, today in school he tried to hold my hand. Now I know that this may seem like he is just playng around, but I can'y help having to question his orientation. He has a girlfriend, but I don't know. We are really good friends, and I always want to be his friend. And if you think that he is bi, do you think that I should try to get closer to him?,(I am bi). Can you help me in thinking this over?
2007-02-09 11:21:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this is complicated!! ok first off knowing that he is bi is something u should ask out as a joke and see what he says, i think....... or find out more by talking to him like a normal conversation but occasionly asking questions relating to men or such.
now by his actions he sounds like or reminds me of a friend i have like that, doesnt means that he is bi just means he acts a bit ....... camp lol sry cant find any other word.
if u find out he aint bi then it all goes out the window
ok next thing, if u know he is bi and hehe u told him u are bi it might be that u guys might like each other am i right??
this will lead complications with his girlfriend.
this is getting comlex, first off find out weather he is Bi for sure!!!!!
and weather u like each other, cos he may be bi but may not have feelings for u like that (sorry) but it might be !! ALL THESE ARE MAYBE'S !!
gd luck!!
2007-02-09 11:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he know you are bi...maybe he is trying to find out the same thing you are trying to find out. depending where you live...I don't know how open mind people are but I don't think is a good idea to hold hands or to show affection in school...people can be cruel, so why don't you ask him in a nice way...you might be surprised by his answer. take him for coffee or take a ride with him and see how he behaves. you will know. don't rush...it all come to you.
2007-02-09 19:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by John R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would a lisp or making sexual comments indicate he is gay? it doesn't.
you are probably jumping to conclusions. maybe he is just patting you like as a friend. i do that with my girl friends all the time, i just like kinda comfort them if they are sad.
i doubt he is gay.
i don't think he would cheat on his gf like that. but, then again i don't know him. i don't know, 50% i think he is gay or bi, 50% of me thinks he is not.
why don't you try touching him back and see where it goes? be careful though, he HAS a girlfriend!
hope i helped!
2007-02-09 19:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by A Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be upfront and ask him, bring it up casually. It's not a bad thing either way. Just don't get with him- his g/f will probably b itch slap the c rap outta you for trying to move in on her man....
Good Luck.
2007-02-09 19:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by 3rd LIFE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds pretty bi but at the same time he could just be messing with your mind. its a hard one but i think he might be bi. just ask him and if he says yes, ask him if he's into like that or not.
good luck
-Emily
2007-02-09 19:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he's bi, but don't try to get close to him if he has a girlfriend, she'll get mad probably. Ask him if he's bi, only if he knows ur bi that is.
2007-02-09 19:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by Dillon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I goof like that all the time with my friends, he could be just messing around, because im not bi or gay. ask him.
2007-02-09 22:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has a g/f then u shouldn't try to get with him.maybe he is by.
2007-02-09 19:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by mosrider2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just ask...u never know if u never ask. ^__^
2007-02-09 19:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by ALex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should get closer to him ................ really close!!!
2007-02-10 17:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by melissa g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋