2007-02-09 11:00:55 · 24 answers · asked by bidec 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because 'i love you' are just words that mean nothing
2007-02-09 11:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by liam0_m 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why does anyone cheat, it's not just guys you know.
It could be down to a number of factors really, dissatisfaction in the relationship, too much alcohol. Perhaps even finding understanding with someone where it feels that there is none at home.
But first define what you mean by cheating. Perhaps it begins in the head with fantasies about work colleagues or complete strangers. And be honest now, who hasn't had these even in a secure relationship. Add alcohol and it sometimes becomes more than a fantasy. This goes for both sexes.
Personally, I am not and have never been married and I have never cheated on a partner but I can understand why people would and although wrong, in most cases it identifies a problem with the marriage rather than the individual. After all, in a perfect relationship who could want anything more.
Of course saying that, there are some bastards who'll take everything they can get.
2007-02-09 19:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by fretwhizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men that cheat are selfish and do not love their wives to begin with if they are cheating on them, When you really love someone you do not cheat and would never even think about it. If the cheater says they love you it is a lie. They have no idea what real love and commitment is. Women that do this to their husbands do not love them either and they are just as selfish and mean as the men are. Goes both ways you know. A cheater does not love the one they are cheating with or on. They only love themselves and what they want and dont care about the other persons or their needs or feelings whatsoever.
2007-02-09 19:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's how we are programmed, can't ask for directions and can't say no to temptation. Same reason young men drive too fast, avoid commitment like the plague and possess oversized egos. But it doesn't make the I love you a lie. After all, vows only apply for the time both parties are in the same place at the same time. And true respect is not getting caught.
2007-02-09 20:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by Finbarr D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to have these feelings. They are confused between attachment vs infatuation.
They actually might have issues within themself or what they are lacking in the existing relationship, but if they truly value their marriage, they should at least go seek counseling for themselves or for the both. They might discover something about themselves and not about what wife can't offer.
2007-02-09 19:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do married women cheat on their husbands? Don't tell me one is more justified than the other. This is an equal opportunity situation with no discrimination on the basis of age, gender, race,and religion.
2007-02-09 19:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you've become his mother, he loves her too, n she was there too wash the DNA of women out of his underpants in the past .Now he has you too do the job.He has someone at home to look out for his needs and he can go off like he's a single guy and hump everything in sight and every time you take him back your tellin him it's OK,go for it son I'll be here every time ,just tell me you love me every now n then.
2007-02-09 22:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is not a crime but getting caught cheating is.Women are too smart and men should learn few tactics from them.
2007-02-09 19:22:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
men usually are attracted to their wifes to be when they are young and feminine looking
given time ,children, life
women tend to loose that feminine sexy look and go flat shoes
practicle and mumsy look
result man sees more femine looking sexy woman goes off and cheats to get what he had before as mens brain ruled by sex urges
most men woudnt stray if they had what they needed at home
women go all out to get a man when younger by looking great
An elegant sexy woman will always get her man
2007-02-12 04:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by steve50 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember that men can't cheat unless there is a cheating woman. She knows- Come on.
2007-02-09 19:04:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
because they never loved them to begin with. because they married under conditions and when these conditions change as they always do they seek love from another, to boost the ego, feel important, and just leave the one they hurt so they won't have to ever be accountable.
2007-02-09 19:57:49 · answer #11 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋