i'm not a virgin..had sex about 7-8 times about 3-4 months ago with my ex bf, but never had ne bleeding, not even the first time...today, after my bf fingered me (alot)..i had lil bleeding, very very mild, but still spots..he did not hav long finger nails but he fingered me many times...y did i bleed n should i be worried? i'm scared...
2007-02-09 10:58:31 · 8 answers · asked by kitXcat 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
also it is not the time for my period..i had my period 2 weeks ago...
2007-02-09 10:59:03 · update #1
look it might be your virginity blood.. who knows
because that thing is so elastic.. so it might be not rip when you did intercouse for the first time but it might be rip with the finger..
2007-02-09 11:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by sylvaniaS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is entirely possible that even if he didn't have long finger nails that he could have still cut the soft tissue that is inside you... my wife complained one time about that same issue... things should be ok in a day or two... at most.. if things get more than 'very very mild' or longer than 2 days... maybe make an appointment to see a doctor... just tell your mom that you are in pain... and ask that she isn't in the room... or tell your mom... she may have had the same thing before...
2007-02-09 11:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by teche16 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try very mild fingering to avoid bleeding.
2007-02-09 11:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u r okay - just see a dr just in case
though he was (i assume) gentle - you never know - the female body is very mysterious - your period can change at anytime - if you EVER think you might have sumthin wrong - pls - go to the doc - - that is sumthin you don't wanna mes around with
good luck!
2007-02-09 11:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by tirebiter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it only slight I wouldnt worry too much it was probably from friction but if it continues go to a OB
2007-02-09 11:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by krunch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has happened to me, it happens when he puts too much pressure in the area, or too much friction... or... more than one or two fingers?.. careful, you don't want an open wound there, it's easy to catch some infection, ask him to be nicer.
2007-02-09 11:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by User 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that doesn't seem rite...maybe your vagina is irritated from his finger in there!! you should cut back on the "fingering"..don't worry about it! I'm sure it's nothin'
good luck!!
2007-02-09 11:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by sexii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure he trims his fingernails next time.
This is nothing to worry about.
2007-02-09 11:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋