I'm this person at school and this other one my myself. They are totally different. At school I'm this kinda spoiled, like playfully making fun of my friends, not dedicated, depressed, grumpy soul. And by myslef I'm this world loving, color inspired, phylosophy obssesed nature loving cute smiling freak. I hate this girl I'm at school. But I dunno how 2 REALLy b myself.
Please, ANY tips at all? opinion?.
oxox, thanks!.
2007-02-09 10:52:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I know, maybe some of u think I'm a little weird on my real personality, but hey, I adore life that way. I'm really psitive when I'm alone, and I want to be so too when I'm with people. I like to meditate and think profoundly things over and the meaning of life. Why is that such a crime?.
2007-02-09 11:04:48 · update #1
It is what they call a "front" You are protraying what you want others to see.And deep down inside you are scared how you will be treated.First off you need to stop the negativity because it will causes others pain and you wouldnt like it if it were done to you.And maybe it is due to your choice of "friends" as well.They expect you to be this so called"hardcore" personality.If i were you Id keep quiet and gradually try and share you true self.
2007-02-09 11:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by vigilant82 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not uncommon. Many years ago there was a song that I loved. It was called 'Two faces have I, One to laugh and one to Cry' I was in High School when that one came out. I could identify with it.Do a little soul searching sweety to see why you feel the need to put on this false face while at school.
2007-02-09 11:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young still I assume (as you talk about school). So you're likely still trying to work out who you are completely.
It's very easy to fall into someone different around people and alot of people do it, especially young people. It's a lot about wanting to be accepted and feeling insecure.
Just keep trying to think positively about yourself, don't worry about it to much cause you'll likely find it harder to be youself around others if you're over-thinking it.
As you get older, and as you get more confident in yourself, you'll likely come out of it and be youself around people more.
If you really don't like it now though, maybe look at the people you are like this around, and try and see if it's anything to do with them, why you act like this.
Do you think they won't like the real you? Would you rather them not like this 'kinda spoiled' girl because you know it isn't really you, than have to worry that they don't like the real you? Peer pressure is hard work and we often give into it without even realising we are. Maybe changing your group of friends could help? But don't make any rash decisions if you feel you might regret them.
Overall try not to worry to much. Eventually the real you will come out!
2007-02-09 11:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by Shanti76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar problem, I was this very outgoing personality outside of home, but then at home I wouldn't like no one coming in my room and bothering me. It was very troubling and I could not understand. Now I'm learning balance, practicing what makes me happy in the outside world, in my house. and vise versa. It's hard at the beginning but you will get better at.
2007-02-09 11:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by villaruthy@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah me too i try to set who i want to be at the first day of the year
2007-02-09 10:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by catsrocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure...but i relly like ur ? cuz im the same way...thank u 4 asking( =
2007-02-09 11:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by Laur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋