I had just asked a question on how this female I use to mess around with is going back and forth whether she likes females or not (me in general) Her and I have messed around A LOT, and the last time being a month ago, she was very flirty with me 2 days ago as well, but then I guess freaked out and told me to stopt talking, and then said not b/c your turning me on but b/c I dont like females, your gorgeous but I would have to be smashed out of my mind to have sex with a female. The last time I messed around with her she was VERY erosed! Seemed like she LOVED it!should I make another move on her? Whenever I make a move, she goes along with it, but then later says it was a mistake, but she never stops talking to me. She is also my BEST FRIEND!!! She has also told me she thinks about me during sex (with her male companion) and every night lays next to him thinking about being with me. She once told me she was in love with me, but now she says shes straight... I AM IN LOVE WITH HER
2007-02-09 10:45:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Friends first, more later. Focus on her for a while and help her understand why she might be having those kind of feelings. If you really love her, let her figure herself out before you tell her that you do. Help her understand that it's all right to be bi or gay. She should also understand that hiding it isn't gonna help anything.
Also, maybe you should stop "fooling around." Be serious for a while. Don't say it in a teasing way if you're going to hit on her. Let her know that you mean it.
2007-02-09 10:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by Meggie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like somebody is in the closet! Maybe try to work on helping her accept her sexuality.
2007-02-09 18:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's confused about who she is...and you can't win on this one.
2007-02-09 21:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋