If a woman who has seen the world and enjoyed great sex is in love with a man, who is not is not fantastic in bed. Are they doomed? (ladies?)
2007-02-09 10:06:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Men can be TAUGHT those skills, you know---all it takes is honest and frank (and GENTLE) discussion about what needs improvement.
Or you could ask this--what lasts longer-----a love or an orgasm?
2007-02-09 10:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes love is much more important besides you can buy toys and fun thing and give yourself orgasms even if your husband is bad at it lol. i love orgasm beads , vibrators and even the bullet lol. We have lots of fun with things. My husband loves giving me oral too. You are much more doomed if there is no love. Womwn can give themselves orgasms but they cannot make someone love them. Nuff said. You can also teach your husband how to give you a good orgasm just walk and talk him through it and show and tell him where the g spot is.
2007-02-09 18:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is more important than just sex or an orgasm. I would honestly rather be in a loving, caring relationship. Sex is not the top priority.
2007-02-09 18:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by nothing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a woman asking?
Any man who cares can learn to be a good lover to his wife. I really believe that.
The wife has to be patient and dedicated to it too.
I know I'm not a lady, but come on. If you are going to spend your whole married life remembering great sex you had with other people and thinking your husband sucks, then don't waste everyone's time by marrying him.
2007-02-09 18:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the woman me I would give anything to be loved and romanced by a man than acheive a orgasm anyday
2007-02-09 18:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lexy320 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how important sex is to each of them. If she feels she cannot live WITHOUT great sex, then they are certainly doomed. I get by without great sex very easily, but not all people do.
2007-02-09 18:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Love is most important. The man can be taught to be a good lover and learn to please his woman (there are all sorts of books, videos, and play things to help in this area). If she has the patience for it, which if she truly loves him then she should.
2007-02-09 18:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by Heather S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they aren't doomed. She just needs to show him what works for her. She may never orgasm through intercourse, but there are other ways to be stimulated to orgasm.
2007-02-09 18:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. Love is hard to find and worth so much in life. You can always work on teaching your lover how to please you and as we get older I think the physical sensations lose importance in life and things like trust, honesty companionship and love become much more important.
2007-02-09 18:13:20 · answer #9 · answered by buffybot67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is in love with this man, the sex is something they can work on together.
2007-02-09 18:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋