Ok here it is I'm dating this girl who I fallen in love I know her for about 7 years and know we're together she just got of jail for some bull **** she been out and doing good but well she was in jail she mess around with this chick we both know and now that the other girl is out she wants to kick it with my girl but since I trust her I said I have no problem...... ok it bugs me a little bit but hey you just got to believe in the person your with but WHAT WOULD YOU DO IN MY SHOES? WOULD YOU LET HER KICK IT OR TELL HER YOU DONT FELL COMFORABLE ?
2007-02-09 10:00:57 · 1 answers · asked by Ricky m 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
hell no i wouldnt be conferable... the way i see it.. being with another person... is BEING with another PERSON. i mean.. to me, it doesnt matter if its male or female... if you do something with someone else... its wrong.
i mean, i guess in your situation i could understand.. her being in jail and all alone... (which i should say doesnt make it right, but i can understand). but for her to want to spend time with this person again... hmm... i dont think i would be to fond of it.
think about it this way... if she did this with another GUY would you let them hang out? i wouldnt. a person is a person doesnt matter what sex they are.
if you are uncomfortable you have a right to be.. and you need to tell her to pick- you or her... if she really cares about you she will respect your wishes... if not... then.. well.. time to find someone else.
this is just my opinion.. you do what YOU think is right.
take care, hope this helps, and i hope everything works out for you.
2007-02-09 15:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Loathing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋