are you finding it hard to get over your ex?
2007-02-09 09:49:44 · 8 answers · asked by Bobbie4u 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel so alone...my wife and I separated and she wants a divorce. I have sacrificed everything for my wife, my marriage and my family. She says that she does not love me and that she has not in a long time. I believe that she has moved on with another man. The only person that I have left in my life is our 3 year old son. Tomorrow is the anniversary of our first date and I can still remember it like it was yesterday.....to remember the great joy that we shared together and to think about what we had makes me feel even worse.
2007-02-09 10:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not having any troubles getting over my ex-wife now. We were childhood sweethearts. I ran into her yrs ago, I was a single Father and she was a single Mother. We where off and on for yrs. I waited for her for several years. We married in 2000 separated in 2003. Her money handling issues became mine. Everything was talked about in detail before marriage. Her 3 young adults and mine. In reality it didn't work out and I was given smart alex repiles to any questions or concerns.
I did feel real bad and lonely after that. I know I hurt a couple women after that. I wasn't ready for a relationship. I mean the whole thing not just sex. I looked back and saw what was going on and didn't like what I saw. I met a lady 4 months ago. After I was over the pain, hurt and deception. I would say it took almost 2 yrs after I saw the path I was on to get over the loss
2007-02-09 18:37:49 · answer #2 · answered by David A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, it has taken me a whole year and a half to bounce back, I am still lonely but I am moving on. It has been challenging getting into the dating seen. After 23 yrs of marriage, being single is not an easy lifestyle to start. As far as getting over her, she was physically abusive and I feel sorry for her and her next partner. I hope she gets the help she needs.
2007-02-09 18:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by Phillip M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm divorced but not lonely, maybe that's because I was the one who left. I was over my ex before the marriage was over...
2007-02-09 19:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i was so lonely after being dumped, taken me some time to realize the truth, instead of sitting around too long i called an old boyfriend, and to my amazing luck he was free too. we got back together, he bought me a home and i couldn't have asked for more out of life. yes it was hard at first to get over it, but after awhile i finally could see that i was the lucky one to be rid of him, now he has someone else to torture and mistreat.
2007-02-09 18:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first of 10yrs. 2 kids. It took me 6yrs. It took me 3yrs to start dating again. 6yrs of dating. Until my second husband that lasted 91/2 years in one child. The second one didn't take no 3yrs. I told myself I was never going to do that again.MY point to you is yes it's gets lonely and wanted but can't have but you know you take that time you have a lone in find yourself again. It got's it's bad times, lonely, and it got's it's good times. Trust me after time it get's better. Start reading. Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger has same interesting books out.
2007-02-09 18:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but my ex passed away on me. And i cant get over her. My heart is broken in a million pieces. I need friends to help me get over her And i have a few great friends on the net. But they cant always chat.
2007-02-09 22:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last "ex" I had was my first love. I haven't really been anything to her since about 1994.
2007-02-09 17:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋