let's say you don't like you daugther in law at all, in fact you had many problemes before. latter... your son and her brake the news they are especting a baby. how do you feel happy or not? please be honest.
2007-02-09 09:46:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ever think that your daughter in law doesn't like you either. it might be harder for her.
2007-02-09 09:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by prettylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my son is happy, I'm happy. When I found out that they were having a child I was overjoyed.
I'm lucky I love my daughter in law. She's helped turn my son into a real man. They are great for each other.
I hope you learn to accept your son's choice. You really don't have any other choice now that the baby's coming, unless you don't want to be a part of that. Good luck.
2007-02-09 09:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how about an answer from the unliked daughter in law, who cares about her mother in law but knows how phoney she is? My mother in law does not care for me but puts on the pretense she does, but when she first saw our child, she stated "oh I have to love you, even though you're part white. (my husband is black)
I told her then, no, you don't ever have to love her. We asked her to watch her grandchild and our daughter sensed this resentment and would cry and cry until we returned...which usually was only about a half an hour later. So needless to say, our daughter really has no tight relationship with her only living grandparent and our daughter is 19 yrs. old. My mom passed away 2 yrs. ago and our daughter said she lost her only grandma. So really evaluate your feelings about your daughter in law before this child comes into this world. The children can sense more than you may realize......
2007-02-09 14:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by jwelch1157 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regrettably, your in-guidelines do not decide on to be that in touch which includes your little ones. that is their decision, and also you're being unreasonable to anticipate them to regulate. once you've an extremely stressful interest and your husband works lengthy hours, that probable would not make for an extremely chuffed residing house -- i'm not attempting to be nasty the following -- yet i extremely have self assurance that one figure needs to have the "interest" of making a house for the relatives. per chance you ought to reduce again and artwork area time? i'm purely putting forward this from journey. when we had our first baby, my husband and that i have been beaten. all the grandparents lived a minimum of one million,2 hundred miles away. We finally realized we both were exhausted when we were given residing house from artwork and that it wasn't a lot of a house to go back residing house to. I gave my 2-week word the subsequent day. We budgeted and gave up quite a number of extras, yet we've had this style of wonderful existence -- we had a pleased residing house by using the indisputable fact that grow to be our priority. Sorry, did not mean to get on my soapbox the following! that is in hardship-free words that I see households now that do not have a real residing house -- purely expensive "issues" and that all of them look exhausted. Take care and performance a pleased relatives!!!
2016-12-03 23:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by rieck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy about the baby and happy for my son but not the dauaghter in law.
2007-02-09 09:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by I'm here for now 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A baby, your grandchild is coming into the world, which is tough enough by itself. Make an effort to reconcile with this girl. He chose her and yes, of course you should be happy.
2007-02-10 01:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are married rather u like her or not. the question is how would i feel. i guess lots of grandparents dont like 1 parent but u love your child and u should be happy that ur going to be a grandparent, as a parent u want whats best for ur child and even though u feel its not the best choice, its not urs to make. u need to make a mend and be the best grandparent u can be.
2007-02-09 09:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by kitttkat2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tough call. I take it this will be you first grandchild? If you want to have a relationship with your son and grandchild you are going to have to find a way to make peace with his wife. Good Luck!
2007-02-09 09:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by Bruce H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello
Rise above it don't let them bring you down do it all with a smile :) and take it on the chin!
Don't give them the opportunity to let you miss out on your grandchildren! by arguing or being unhappy they are your's to
Enjoy them
2007-02-09 10:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by ellerton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i be happy, for it a new life comeing in to the world,
2007-02-10 01:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋