I have this friend and that is all that I make out of it and that is a friend and I would like to get her a dozen roses or so for Valentines Day. Would that be considered wrong knowing the lady is married and I would never do anything to want to destroy her marriage.
2007-02-09 09:37:43 · 12 answers · asked by always_trust_in_jesus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NO. it definiately would not be wrong, but make sure to tell them what you mean by the flowers, just incase they get the wrong message.
2007-02-09 09:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a sweet gesture and definitely not wrong. It depends on the situation, though. After all, Valentine's Day is aimed at lovers.
Do you know her husband well enough to be able to predict his reaction? Does her husband have any animosity or jealousy toward your friendship? Is their marriage strong or rocky and unsure?
The answers to these questions should determine the answer to your question.
If you DO decide to send flowers, each type of flower represents a different message. For example, red roses mean romantic love, so definitely DON'T send those. However, pink roses represent friendship. They would be a good choice.
Before you buy the flowers, check out this article for information on which flowers to choose: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/138232/the_hidden_meanings_behind_flowers.html
2007-02-13 05:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by a g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see anything wrong with it you just might want to make it clear though that it is only because shes a good friend and not that you have feelings for her. Mostly you have her husband to worry about, maybe you should get them both gifts. If you get her flowers dont get roses since there one meaning on valentines day is love. Maybe get her daisys.
2007-02-09 09:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by Danni R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful what colors and type to get. Make sure they're any color but red and any type but roses.
Go for pinks, yellows, and purples. For flowers, try tulips or carnations and leave a card saying "To my best friend, hope you have an awesome valentines day!" or something along those lines.
2007-02-09 09:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by qtpie16707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's not wrong. But maybe her husband might think of this differently. Before giving the flowers to your friend, you can say "Congratulations!" so her husband will not think that you mean something else. And why not give flowers to your other girl friends ?
2007-02-09 09:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by abi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her husband first, that way it doesn't destroy the marriage. and if the husband doesn't like the idea of u giving his wife roses, how about a lily?
2007-02-09 09:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her anything other than RED and leave a note of best wishes for her marriage life or something... and make sure ur words are totally NOT intimidating...
2007-02-09 09:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by Maasupian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
specific you are able to deliver plant life the day in the previous Valentine s Day and as some others have pronounced, it s much extra specific to get some situation extra significant to her. Please overlook relating to the advice of the materialistic c_nt who warns on no account to deliver plant life early. human beings like her could be made to accomplish a little problematical artwork and be humbled.
2016-11-03 00:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by ridinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 her husband 1 to make sure
it just a friend if u care bout her go 4 it
2007-02-09 09:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by Teresa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
valentine's day is for lovers only...you are only being a chump by getting your friend all these flowers dude...she must be very lonely or very selfish
2007-02-09 09:45:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋