Are you 13 to 15?
if so
have you ever had a friend betray you??
2007-02-09 09:28:41 · 25 answers · asked by angel 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Yes, and yes. The world of girls can be very cruel. They will say harsh things to hurt you, torment you, annoy you, and everything else under the sun to bother you or make you feel uncomfortable.
If a friend betrays you, you have every right to be mad at them. They hurt you and no one likes to purposely be hurt. Take time to cool off and then go talk to them. Figure out what happened or what went wrong.
The best thing for you is to forgive and forget. It is painful and it is likely that the process will be painful. If you constantly dwell on what one person did wrong to you, it can make your like miserable and hard to accomplish happiness.
As a teenage girl it is going to be hard to do that, or to ignore it which would also work. But if you don't try, you can not be mad because it was you who didn't try to improve things for the better.
Go talk to them find out what may have happened. Most of the time it is caused by miscommunications. And the people understanding things the wrong way of that in which they were ment to be understood.
2007-02-09 11:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
yep when i was 14 or 15 my best friend stole my boyfriend, then i forgave her and she did it again. And she was so much more unattractive than me, made me feel very bad. But in goin that she made me realise the guys were stupid sleezes anyway.
ages 12-19 friends betray each other all the time due to all those bloody homone changes, its best not to dwell on it for too long cos those hormones can make young people do crazy things.......
13-15 is a very difficult part of life, but believe me, it gets better! Im 20 and happy as larry, when i was 13 i was a depressed wreck. Dont worry about that stuff and LIVE! :) Be happy
2007-02-09 09:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 16 now, but i had a best friend when I was younger (8-14), and we shared everything with each other. She started having problems and began to feel bad about herself, so she started blabbing all my stuff to everyone and even making things up about me. When people found out she was lying, though, she got into a LOT of trouble. Nobody really likes her now because they know what kind of person she is. Hang in there; everything will come out right in the end.
2007-02-09 10:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by funkymonkeyduck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 17, but when I was about 14 or 15, my best friend hurt me sexually. (You know what I mean... I don't want to say it on here). Everyone has had someone betray them...
2007-02-09 10:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by Hawaii_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 and yeah. My cousin was my ultimate BFF until maybe fifth or sixth grade. Then all of a sudden she's making fun of me in front of all the "popular" people just to get a laugh out of them. their favorite thing to do was try and make me cry at lunch. they even told some kid I had a huge crush on him and he wouldn't leave me alone for months. Now that we're a little bit older it's stopped and we're friends again, proving that all clouds have a silver lining. don't give up hope.
2007-02-09 13:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by Off the Key of Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 and yes I have had a friend betray me...I guess she wasn't really a friend.
2007-02-09 09:53:18 · answer #6 · answered by I'm here for now 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i have had a freid betray me before and it SUCKED!!!heres how it happened. i had four great freinds that iv'e had since preschool. one day one of my freinds to start a (I hate katlen belle club) all of a sudden i had no freinds and my old freinds were making up stuff about me, my new nickname was the dorky loaner i used to be queen awesomeness or cuddle bunny. I just spent that time getting good grades and really focusing on my family and my pets. 2 weeks later it all stoped and i had my freinds begging me to forgive them but i told i forgave them but we cant be freinds anymore. And it all turned out fine.
2007-02-09 11:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by danceaholic345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 15 and yes. I had a friend who turned against me and started talking behind my back and spreading rumors. The worst part is she had been my friend for 9 years.
2007-02-09 09:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by Candice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, when I was that age, yes actually. I told a girl who I thought was my friend a HUGE secret...next thing you know, entire eighth grade knows. If this has happened to you, the best thing you can do is IGNORE her! Block her out of your life before she causes more trouble. I made the mistsake of not doing that...
2007-02-09 09:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by Pieces Of Rainbowzz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm 18 and i have lost a friend ceuse i just can't trust her. Some of the things she's done to me haven't been nice but i'm slowlery getting over it. It's hard to loose a friend through betrayal
2007-02-09 13:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by Trac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋