He doesn't get it, I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years and we still live together. He doesn't get it, I'm sick of wasting time with him, he doesn't want to comit so I don't want to be with him. Now he wants to have another child and kiss up and I don't kno9w what to say. He rubs it in my face that I broke up with him but he still cares. I don't even know if I'd want to stay with him because of everything that has happened. Is that so wrong?
2007-02-09 09:15:56 · 5 answers · asked by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you want to cleanly breakup, you should probably move out or ask him to. It is hard to "get it" when you still live together.
Maybe some actual physical space will give you a clearer view on what you want out of this.
2007-02-09 09:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused - you dated for six years, had a kid together, you decided that you were wasting time with him, yet you still live with him?
It sounds like you haven't really decided that he isn't the one for you. Some advice - you can't change people, and most people don't change.
If you broke up with him and are serious about moving on, you should find your own place, or move out somewhere else. Staying there will just ensure that you repeat your past mistake cycle of going back with someone that you know in your head isn't good for you. Stop listening to your heart and do what's smart.
2007-02-09 09:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all why are you still living with him if your broke up? Get out of there and away from him and find your own place to live. If you dont want to be with him then why are you still sending him mixed signals by still living with him. Get out and move on with your life and then he will get it!
2007-02-09 09:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong of u....some relationships are meant to end what are u suppose to to do? feel guilty about it and force urself to be with him and not be happy???????? 6 yrs isnt a long time....marriages of 20 years and up end up in divorce
make him understand that it's over, and he should get over it, if he doesnt get over it and move out file a restraining order that is worse case scenario!
2007-02-09 09:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by zesty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. IF YOU REALIZE A MISTAKE AND WANT TO FIX IT YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO DO SO.
HE MAY STILL CARE ABOUT YOU, BUT A REAL RELATIONSHIP TAKES 2 PEOPLE COMMITTED. NOT JUST ONE.
2007-02-09 09:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by sweetbabykitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋