Has anyone else been in a same-sex relationship and there partner been a shamed and embaressed about it?

Question

Im in a same-sex relationship and we plan to get married. Im not sure wether we should go through with it or not though as my fiancee is embaressed of us and Im not sure she should marry e if this is the way she feels. Neither of us have been with females before but have been together afew years now and are in love, but why is she still embaressed?!

Answer 1

hey sus .....first of all whether ur in a same sex marriage ,relationship or anything else ....ur partner should not be embaressed about anything to do with u at all.....when u love some one like u say both of u love each other embaressment goes out the window....u should sit down and do the most civil thing talk!! first of all ask her what her views are on the relationship....whether this was an experiment or if its for real coz marriage is a long time commitment and in this case alot of things have to be taken into consideration like coming out to ur families ...society maybe she doesn't want to do that as yet maybe shes not sure of what she wants ...what ever it is u guys need to talk and u need to tell her how u feel about the way shes been acting and that it hurts u i'm sure it does and then the toughest of all u need to make adecision and adhere to it for ur own sake if this is what u really want and she wants ..or u think u want then u have to talk to each other and discuss all aspects of this type of relationship ....right so smile lifes not that bad there are worse things out there .....keep ur chin up

Answer 2

Society brainwashes us to believe, that "traditional marriage" is solely between a man and a woman. We are taught that any other belief is wrong, sick, unnatural,and that we will surely go to hell. Our entire lives, we are conditioned and ruled by the majority of societies views and bombarded by media mainstream beliefs. If your girlfriend is embarrassed, you need to deal with and come to some understanding regarding her issue. If she can not be herself or portray her feelings towards you, or reach some comfort level as to her feelings towards you, I feel you will have major repercussions in your future. In today's society, being gay is difficult enough, without a full commitment to the relationship, it will surely take its toll. If you are unsure of a full commitment, I would try to resolve her reasons for her feelings of shame before you marry.

Answer 3

So people are and ashamed but it's because the way the world is today. If your sure she loves you go for it if not hold it off a while. It never hurts to wait. I'm stright but I believe love can exisit between same sex couples! Good-luck and best wishes!!

Answer 4

Maybe she's not into just "one sex" this could be a possability, No one should ever be ashamed of who they are, and there is nothing wrong with Same Sexed couples, its a natural thing. She could be ashamed of your realtionship becasue of how she was raised, talk to her about it. I hope everything works out with the marriage, good luck and god bless!

Answer 5

Theres no doubt that she loves you or else she wouldn't still be with you maybe she just doesnt want people to look down on her or be ashamed of her?

Answer 6

God creates men and women, not only men or women. It means that He creates a man for a woman and vice verse.

Answer 7

Society tells us from birth that it is not right. That is hard to overcome!! For anyone, be patient with her and she will come around.

Answer 8

personally i think its wrong in gods eyes god made men for women and women for men thats my belief anyway i don't go for lesbians or queers gays