These girls( they used to be my friends) in my school say that i'm boring.......the reason that they say that i am boring is because i don't like talking about stuff that they like talking about............they talk about getting felt up by guys and the things that they do to guys.......any ways am i boring just beacause i don't like talking about those things?...........(i'm 13)
2007-02-09 08:49:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Not boring ... Smart! Keep doing what you are doing and you will get more respect from people. It is very easy to tarnish your reputation by kissing and telling. I dont know if you do or not do the things your friends are talking about but in high school and junior high the more you talk about things you do with other people the more they will talk about you. You are right for keeping silent. Also remember the people that are your friends today may not be tomorrow and whatever you do say i'm sure they wouldnt mind posting or sharing with anyone and everyone if you ever get into an argument. That age is very hard and people can be very vindictive and cruel when they want to be
2007-02-09 08:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by Pinky75 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no Ur not boring. Ur just not into what they are. my suggestion is to get into a school activity that u like. there are many other girls out there Ur age that don't talk about those things. now Ur gonna think well what if they don't approve of what I'm doing. the only person that cares about what u think is u. it sounds like there just getting sexually active. my opinion that's a young age to be thinking of that. but each to there own. u sound like a smart girl that has morals and thinks about herself. u need to find kids that have some of those same aspects. keep up the rocken attitude!! u rock girl!
2007-02-09 09:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by shoppingreen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey, you're not boring. You're perfectly normal for your age - these girls are just little wanna-be-sluts trying to sound older, cooler, sluttier than they are. Their interests sound pretty limited, and pretty shallow.
Dump these friends and find some people who share your interests - join a club, a sports team, girl scouts, whatever. There are plenty of girls at your school who are more your style, and you'll have better friendships with them. Be proud of who you are, and share it with the world.
2007-02-09 09:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If boring = self-esteem and not being defined by what some boy is doing to or about me then I would rather be boring.
Your not boring there just airheads that are a little boy crazy, it will go away in about 10 years. In the interim keep your head on your shoulders, and define your self by your own standards and not what others think.
Cheers!
2007-02-09 08:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by 35 and loving it! 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are so not boring.. in fact you are far from it. You have much more respect for yourself and thats great coming from a 13 year old.
Those girls are not your friends and are nothing but shanks.. don't worry you will find better friends who will treat you with respect and vise versa.. I am sooo glad that these girls are no longer your friends..
Don't worry about it.. you are still young and have your whole life in front of you..
2007-02-09 08:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, that doesn't make you boring!
Good for you for standing up and not pretending to be someone you are not!!! Start talking to other people, I am positive you'll meet some that talk about stuff you do like, and you'll make friends in no time!!!
2007-02-09 08:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by avechm 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your 13 and you shouldnt really be talking about let along doing anything with boys ! your not boring, its just some girls dont have anything else to talk about but boys, their the boring ones !
2007-02-09 09:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by vicki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES U ARE
I FELL ASLEEP JUST READING YOUR ??
2007-02-09 09:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by THAT GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋