2007-02-09 08:48:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi Kari. He may not think so when he's doing it but give me your phone # and let's you and i have a conversation with him listening. I bet all of a sudden he'll change his mind on the subject.
2007-02-09 08:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything you wouldn't do with someone in person, or on the phone with your spouse standing there watching, in my opinion, is cheating. Phone sex is all in the mind, but mentally, he's getting it on with another woman. STILL cheating. If he wont' stop....and you can't deal with it anymore, then leave. That's the beauty of this life. WE get to choose the people in our lives, what we can live with or can't, and how much CHIT to put up with!
2007-02-09 16:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you really didnt give some important information here. IS he having phone sex with somebody? if so lol of course he doesnt think its wrong and let me hold the door open for you to leave!
If hes not having phone sex and your ready to leave then that doesnt make sense, but if your ready to leave then leave somethings not right that you feel this way.
2007-02-09 16:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by letthepartybeginnow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is the beginning of other things, it is all about looking outside the marriage for something. if he refuses to see that this hurts u than yes it is time to stand up for yourself. as i do believe we do teach others how to treat us by showing them what we are willing to put up with. anything done behind a spouse's back with another woman is cheating, and deceitful. maybe u and your husband have different morals and belief systems. perhaps he does feel he is doing nothing wrong, but he is doing u a wrong and he is hurting u. u may have to leave him and move on as u and he seem to be traveling down different path's in life.
2007-02-09 19:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is on the phone he is only thinking, he is not over there fooling around. You can get him off the phone, but his head is still there. Then he will go underground and you will never know where his head, or body, is at. Let him have his fantasy and your body rather than a fantasy you do not know about that could get out of hand.
2007-02-09 17:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he can label it anyway he wants but in your book it's cheating. Leave. Respectable, trustworthy and honorable married man do not resort to phone sex with other women. The ones who aren't do.
2007-02-09 17:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your husband is getting off with anyone but you, that is cheating. sex should be with you not a phone sex operator.
2007-02-09 17:20:21 · answer #7 · answered by david w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is!!!!!!!!!!! I would leave!! We will see if the next girl thinks it is cheating or not. What would he say if you were the one doing it. I would bet that he wouldnt like it. Guys like to do alot of things that they dont like done to them. I think if they got a little more of what they dished out that there would be a fewer nice guys out there.
2007-02-10 11:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by Takita F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess what a lot of men dont know or wont admit, it is cheating cause they went there in their mind with another woman. hello emotionall cheating. still the same especially if he caressed himself during the phone sex dialog. hello!
2007-02-09 16:51:30 · answer #9 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think so because he's thinkin about sleepin wit some one esle besides you and to me dat's cheating and I think it's time to go or tell him about his self cuz he's havin phone sex wit another girl instead of u y act when he can do it wit u
2007-02-09 16:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by x3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋