I want a "flirt friend". Can you relate?
2007-02-09 08:45:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, I know EXACTLY what you mean! I used to just flirt with people on MSN, flirt friends are really important - its not about having sex, it's just about feeling valued, and about being able to make someone smile and feel special. Ignore anyone who says that wanting it is bad - it's not, it's totally normal and healthy! :)
2007-02-10 04:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by Pebbles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if your spouse was flirting with someone else behind your back? Flirting is cheating's ugly cousin. My husband used to flirt big time with one of his co-workers and it really hurt me. I started to be more flirty with him like when we started dating and that's all he wanted. When your with someone for a long time it does kind of get boring. Remember the one your flirting with could take it wrong and start putting the moves on you. Think about if you would stop or let it go into an affair.
2007-02-09 16:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are human and so is everybody else!! OF course it is normal to want and desire someone else. Commitment is defined by not following through on those desires. It does not mean that you will never be attracted to some one else ever again! If you value your relationship...you will not give in to your wandering mind!!
2007-02-09 17:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need is a f u c k buddy! Sometimes you can find them in a bar, usually older women, who are frustrated, and been in a number of relationships, who just need to get laid. I would tell you to look for them in their 40's or 50's, nice body, nice rack, no lushes, you'll be buying them drinks all night, and they're only fishes in bed, if you know what I mean!
2007-02-09 17:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's normal... I've had flirt friends all my life, although now that I'm married I don't have them anymore.
2007-02-09 16:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love flirting, and some doctors say its ok and healthy.
2007-02-09 16:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by RR77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i use to have plenty of those and it was fun and less harmful for the moment.....but it was bad in the long run for the self esteem. whatever, get your flirt on.
2007-02-09 16:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah! way normal! I need strange all the time. Jesus!
2007-02-09 16:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by kane_derick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is normal...as long as you're not in a committed relationship.
2007-02-09 16:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with wanting to try out the different items on the menu...????
2007-02-09 17:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋