ok well she has been my friend for 12 years and all the way up till 9th grade in highschool she was fine but she suddenly started getting really really nervous around me and i cant sit by her or nething but now u gotta know her past she has had a problem with passing out since kindergarden and no1 can findout y she is like this ok so she has had many years of stress and stuff wich got her into drugs and the drugs made her able to be around me and like she was normal like when we were young and she recently got off the drugz and now she is even worse with being around me ok she wants to trys to and jus cant she gets soooo nervous and cant take it and i need to know y she may b like this it kills me to no my b/f cant b near me or look in my eyes at all but u gotta remember she does want to b around me she jus cant
2007-02-09 08:37:36 · 5 answers · asked by the big man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
your asking the wrong ppl take your friend out sit her down ask her whats wrong. Tell her you love her and theres nothing she can say or shes done thats going to change it. She could be embarrassed, have a secret, going throw a hard time, she could have different feelings for you, she could of betrayed you in someway, fact is theres hundreds of reasons she might be doing this and the only way to find out is to come right out and ask her. Some of these ppl without knowing the answer are going to let their minds run wild, try to create drama, and plain give you bad advice... your answer is going to come from your friend.
2007-02-09 08:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by letthepartybeginnow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your story is a little all over the place, so it is hard to get a read on things. But it sounds like your friend needs some help. If she is having anxiety issues that have been going on for a while then she needs medication / therapy. The many years of stress you talked of can be anything in our mind, so that seems like the place to examine why her anxiety is as bad as it is. If this anxiety is just around you, maybe she likes you more than just a friend. If it isn't just around you, then maybe she is ashamed of this and is embarrased of herself around you. There are way too many possibilites with out knowing the details to REALLY speak intelligently about it, but I would start with if she likes you or not. It sounds like she has specific problems being around you and they are not bad things, otherwise she would just not want to be around you. UNLESS, she has something important other than feelings to confide in you, but can't bring herself to tell you.
2007-02-09 16:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be hiding something from you and can't face you. Tell her what you wrote us she should be the one reading this I think you need to allow her to open up somehow I suggest you do it over the phone since she gets nervous in your presence. Just tell her that you have noticed how uneasy and distant she has been and you want to know what is going on in her world. Let her know whatever it is you can handle it and make sure you stick to that too. Good luck.
2007-02-09 16:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not clear on the reason your b/f passes out, but maybe the answer is simpler than you think. She may have developed romantic feelings toward you. Maybe she's nervous because SHE LIKES YOU.
2007-02-09 16:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by chula28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is makin the right decision.u shouldn't be in drug cuz u can get in trouble and thats bad for u.do u like her?u have a bit of issues but i think i can help.
2007-02-09 16:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by ღ♥MadamA.A.♥ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋