I have this friend and we've been friends for a long time but i don't like her that much any more. she's annoying and wierd but i don't want her to hate me and i've been trying to avoid her but we ride the same bus please help. She's wierd and i dont like her
2007-02-09 08:35:48 · 5 answers · asked by b r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell her how you feel. Tell her that the things that make you feel upset, is bothering you. If she would like to remain friends that she will have to change her attitude or you will have to move on to more positive things. If you don't want to be friends anymore, tell her that you need this and that and if it doesn't change you will have to part friendship. It is all about angles and if you have enough positive in your life to continue. If she continues to be negative you are not and will not put up with it. You love life and so should she. If she really wants the friendship she will change and if not, please leave you alone because you just are not up to the work involved in a negative relationship. Take care Heather
2007-02-09 08:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a friend to you, then you're not much of a friend by not telling her how she makes you feel.Maybe she'll be willing to change to keep the friendship. sometimes people don't know what they're doing, its only until people like you help your friend to make a change.
2007-02-09 16:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by sharon j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her u think she is being annoying or tell her you like some girl and ask her for help in the situation.
2007-02-09 16:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her lightly straight up if you dont shell find out later and you could REALLY hurt her trust me it will still hurt her but not as much
2007-02-09 16:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by lamb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you need some space and you need time to be on your own if she's a real friend she will understand
2007-02-09 16:39:20 · answer #5 · answered by vicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋