my life is nothing but rejection after rejection?

Question

there are so many people in the world, theres always going to be someone better for everything and everyone. do you agree?
should i just give up? i mean i guess im not fit for anything.

Answer 1

We love you, and totally accept you!

Answer 2

Yes, life is mostly rejection. But people are not rejected based on values of better or worse. There are all kinds of reasons other than "good" or "not good" why relationships don't work, jobs aren't obtained, friendships don't last or artistic endeavors aren't recognized. Luck and timing have a lot more to do with success than we are usually willing to admit. But even if life is mostly rejection, it's only a reason to be more persistent, not less so. Moreover, it's the simple things in life that people reflect back on, not their "successes". Savor that cup of coffee. Enjoy that child's smile. Smell not only the roses, but also the star jasmine everyone seems to use as ground cover lately.

Answer 3

It's true for everyone. Doesn't seem possible but it is. And there are also always going to be people worse off. You're not starving, I take it, you have an internet connection and the soul to ask these questions. If you are unhappy, plan things and keep busy. And maybe just look around every once in a while. I reccomend the hubble space pictures.

Answer 4

I think you will find that your life is much like everyone else's life. It is likely your problem is your doom and gloom attitude. It is verifiable that a person's attitude and outlook affect the people around them and this will in turn bounce back to you. People are people, and someone will come along and love you for yourself... If you are not projecting despair to them. Nobody wants a human raincloud.

So take a deep breath, put on your game face and try again. And again. And again. And keep trying, because after all, if it's a choice between trying and giving up, giving up makes no sense at all.

Answer 5

yea, there is. But that doesn't mean that you are gonna be rejected all the time, damn I wish I could listen to the advice I am giving. You see I am 32 years old, single, never married, and still don't have anyone. People tell me all the time that it will get better. I think I am going to get used to rejection one day. Maybe the problem is that we are aiming too high. I don't wanna be one of the guys that has to settle though. Cheer up, it will get better one day.

Answer 6

Sure you are. I feel the same way sometimes. Heres some of the lower points in my life, compare them to your own and see whose worse off:
1) growing up my father was mentally abusive. He was grouchy and would down grade me in front of my friends. It got to the point where I wouldn't even have any friends over because of his stupidity.
2) As a teenager I NEVER had a boyfriend. People oftain refered to me as plain old "ugly". I only had one or two "friends" and they were mean to me when the right moment came. I personally don't think that I am/was ever that bad looking. Its just that my parents never bought me new clothes or anything else, for that matter.
3) When I turned 18 I finally got a hot boyfriend and we married soon after. He eventually turned into a lying, cheating, abusive drunk and after 8 years of pure "heck", I divorced him.
4) I am now in a no where job, with no friends and very little to ever look forward to.

I find my comforts in watching television, renting movies, shopping and helping abandoned animals. Life still sucks but you learn to deal with it.

Answer 7

Just because you are not the best person in the universe doesn't mean you aren't fit for anything! The tops probably lonely anyway. Just hang here with the rest of us. And for goodness sakes--God made you especially for this earth--so we all are important and give a contribution regardless if any other mortal notices or not.

Answer 8

nobody is better than you. most accomplished people will tell you that their success came from failing many times before some combination of hard-work, luck, etc. brought some fortune. failure is what pushes us to succeed. if there is anything you want in life, take it. its already yours. everything you do on the way there is just something that happened before you did what you were born to do. you are fit for what ever you want to be fit for. you need only to push yourself to be the best at being yourself. everyone else is just someone that happened to you on your way. don't give up. take what you want. nothing else matters. seriously.

Answer 9

The laws of attraction really govern everything in our lives. If you sit around focusing on your liabilities, that's going to color the way people see you. People who don't like themselves are unattractive (doesn't matter what you look like). Try giving yourself a little TLC - pursue some interests, do something that makes you feel good. The rest will follow. You can't force it.

Answer 10

There may be always someone better, but so what? Only the most driven people need to be the best at everything. It's ok to just be good enough. But don't be surprised someday if you turn out to be the best one for someone else.

Answer 11

Don't give up. That would be the biggest mistake that you could ever make. Keep trying until you succed at something, or someone good enough for you. Chances are you are way better than all those peole who are falling to fast for something and getting hurt. Take a break, but don't ever give up!