It seems taboo to still be a virgin once you're well out of your teens, and I just wanted a poll of how people feel about this. I read that by the age of 20, 75-85 percent of all people have had sex already!
2007-02-09 08:34:32 · 16 answers · asked by F G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i don't think nothing is wrong with it, it just mean your saving yourself for that special one
2007-02-09 08:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by babygirlnikkibuttercup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with it. I met this one guy who was a virgin until he got married, and he was 43 by then.
It all depends on the person. I didn’t do it until I was 19, and I have nothing to be ashamed of.
I have a little note for those who said to “save it for someone special”: DON’T
Don’t save it for nothing, just let it be, whenever happens, it happens. Don’t save it cause when the day comes, if it doesn’t come out as you “dreamed about it”, you wil be disappointed and will hate yourself later on.
Just let it happen, there is no such a thing as “right person” or “right time”. Take those ideas out of your brain cause you will only get hurt when you land into the real world. If you let it happen, and just enjoy the moment, you will be happy. Trust me, I have many friends (both girls and guys) that have the same sad story about their first time.
2007-02-09 16:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its comendable.
I don't think its embarassing...really the only time it becomes an issue, is when the person in question gets embarassed and boast about being a great lover...and then gets called out.
But kudos to those who have held out..I honestly wish that I could go back and change my mind.
2007-02-09 16:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Bevin M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there should be more young people in the world like you.God bless you. You'll have something special to offer your partner on your wedding night.
2007-02-09 17:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by sharon j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Late twenties? I personally think it rare but not embarrassing at all
2007-02-09 17:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. Who cares what the statistics are? You need to have sex when you know you are ready, not because other people are.
2007-02-11 01:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by x3 KELS0 x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say good for you.No it is not embarassing,it shows you have good morals and you are waiting for marriage. its a good thing.Too many young people start sex so young and wind up with diseases or an unwanted pregnacy.It wrecks their lives.
2007-02-13 14:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by canteloupesweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should it be embarrassing? What is right for you is nobody else's business to judge.
Remember, "to yourself be true". Nobody is ever happy if they only live their life to satisfy others expectations.
2007-02-09 16:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by Class Act 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... I was 16 and I regret it... As long as you don't your set man. It's not embarrassing.
2007-02-09 16:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by CandyCane1987 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not embarrassing at all...save it for someone special!
2007-02-09 16:45:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋