i do!! He's always calling and asking where i am. i don't want to break up with him!! What should i do?
2007-02-09 07:59:31 · 8 answers · asked by YoU kNoW yOu LoVe Me 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He's worried and cares and you. Tell him or if he's like physco crazy obsessive BREAK UP!!!
2007-02-09 09:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try talking to him about it but in the end if you can't deal with it you might have to just leave. I'm currently single but I know when I have a girlfriend I am always calling her not really becuase of her but because of every one else. Guys can't be trusted the way I veiw things is if the isn't a ring on the finger then they are fair game and I know plenty of other guys like that he's probably calling because he's insecure and worried you'll cheat on him and I know you may say you wont but he may not believe that. I dated this girl for almost a year things were great between us until she met this guy who she said was just a friend of a friend who she said she only saw 3 times with her friend I didn't trust the guy. For another two months our relationship went down hill and we mutually broke up but I found out a week and a half later that the guy she told me she only saw 3 times and didn't like in any way her and him we getting into a somewhat serious relationship I also found out he kept trying to get intouch with her even though he new she had a boyfriend it's not always the girl you have to worry about it's the other guy just realize he's worried about loosing you.
2007-02-09 08:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WAS one years ago.
She couldn't stay finally,then i crashed.
IF you KNOW (is that possible?)you are going to stay,you should take the advice beside here.'Tell him bothers you.
Make space for yourself that he respect(yeah right).
If it comes to unbearable and you MUST leave,as he is following you to bathroom,want to know were you are heading when you go to kitchen for water etc Do a sharp cut as fast possible.
He will crash and burn terrible,he is insecure as others mentioned,and there's just worse to do it over 6 months!
Get a 'boyfriend'and go travel or something.
I WAS SUCH A SCHMUCK I TELL YOU!
If i could make those years undone i would.
Today the contact is broken and i was in pain for a long time.
But she 'came back' over and over!
*sigh*
Hope you forgive me Lena!
2007-02-09 08:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by idiotjim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's intimidated by the fact the you think your all that? With a title like I am flippin awesome I wouldnt trust you either.
2007-02-09 08:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by Aaron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did.
ypu'll have to either deal or leave. alot of times ppl choose the latter. obsession becomes self fullfill prophecy
2007-02-09 08:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not obsessed, he's insecure. If he is real young he may just have to grow up but if there are any hints of violence, END IT!!!
2007-02-09 08:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no but im obsessed with my boyfriend kind of..lol but not in a creepy stalkerish way
2007-02-09 08:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by Dance Jenny Dance ♫ [Deadhead♥] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Tell him it bothers you
2.Dont answer his calls when you feel it's just too much
2007-02-09 08:14:20 · answer #8 · answered by Di 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋